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I borrow the title of a book of Alberoni. He made me discover the duality of feelings between infatuation and love. Blog is a complicated, that is likely to paint over different posts, different aspects of something that is difficult to define. What is infatuation? what is love? are two degrees of the same, such as big and huge? are two aspects of the same, such as water and ice? or are really different things, different feelings?

Let me explain. We've all been in love once, and have to be in contact (physical, telephone) continued with the beloved. Thousand calls a day, zillions of text messages, emails, letters ... and we thought, when we were separated from him, that we needed air to breathe, we had a hole in the chest.

Over time, continuing the relationship, we (or not) to live together, is irrelevant, after two or three years, this situation of dependency of the emails, the other person is no longer so pressing, it has smoothing. We realize that we cost more or cost us less, but the other no longer occupies the entire space in our thoughts. We can think of a labor strategy in a change of car, or just in something else not related to the beloved.

What happened? love is gone? no, we still want the other person. This person she was in love (I'll talk in male, may be in love if you are female) is still there, living with us, being the father of our children or our loving home favorite has set and is not ours, is equal to the case. The fact is that we want, not custom, but really, with physical desire, wanting to be close, with laughter, tears, arguments and generally everything that makes a life.

But we can survive but we have not spoken with the last two hours.

Where are we? where is the sense of loss felt? we want less?

No, I want different. We can say "I'm in love with him / her" but that "I'm in love" is not the'm in love with the first six months. Is, say, an adult I'm in love, for I am in love with a teenager. And age has nothing to do, I have seen teenage crushes, worthy of Twilight, at fifty

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Tags: love , heartbreak , intimacy

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