Infatuation and Love - 2
Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009As we said yesterday that falling in love was lost over time, and there was no need for continuous contact, and we wondered what would happen if love was over. And no, it's over in love, and you can keep - or not - love.
Difference? falling in love we are enthralled by an image we have of someone who does not really know and want to discover. And we fill in the blanks in the personality of another, the whites of all that we do not know it, so we'd like it to be.
If you propose we go hiking excursion, and accept (for care), and we will make the happiest person in the world because he likes what he did to us. If you like film, is delighted at the meeting aim of the battleship Potemkin, more intellectual when he had seen was Police Academy-7
And so we see the person loved with our desires. Like a Christmas tree we got naked from the store, and you're getting a star glitter here, here an angel, here wreaths, a little snow here, until it covers the entire tree, and is something this:
and of course, fall rendered. But not to the person, but before the image that we have made of it. From what I did not know it and we have put us, that was a fan of Madrid, who liked heavy metal band, or your best interest to stay at home watching TV.
That is, can only be in love with a stranger.
Because as time passes and we get to know us, we see that fails to accompany us to tread caps, or the Bernabeu, but instead a passion flower growing or philately, and that his greatest happiness is to move the Finder by cuttings or analyzing the Scott, which, as you all know without a doubt the philatelic catalog reference USA. And falling from the tree are now a star, now a glass ball shatters on the floor. But that is not bad, but good. Finally, below is the bare tree, the person as is, as was at first, before the adornasemos with our wishes.
And this person, real, is the person we want. We're not in love with an image, a symbol, we want a real person, with his virtues and his faults. If we bother to snore or not a stick into the water, ran out of love and love there will not be there. If your snoring find endearing, and we feel sexy we wake up at night to attack in the dark, or your unwillingness to work is compensated with which she can sing cheerful Neapolitan songs, and that's what we love, infatuation will result in love. That is much deeper (although they affect less hormones, which is a shame)
True love is accepting the other as it is, in love as we would like it to be.
