Infatuation and Love - 2
As we said yesterday that falling in love was lost over time, and there was no need for continuous contact, and we wondered what would happen if love was over. And no, what infatuation is over, and you can follow - or not - love.
Difference? falling in love we are enthralled by an image of someone we do not really know and want to discover. And we'll fill in the blanks in the other's personality, everything whites do not know it, with what we would like to be.
If we go hiking excursion will propose, and accept (because you are interested) and we will make the happiest person in the world because he likes what he did to us. If you like movies, will be noted at the meeting delighted the battleship Potemkin, more intellectual when he had seen was Police Academy-7
And so we see the person loved with our desires. Like a Christmas tree we get naked from the store, and we're getting here a glitter star, an angel here, here wreaths, some snow here, until it covers the entire tree, and is something like this:
and of course, fall rendered. But not to the individual but to the image that we have made of it. From what I did not know it and we have put us, who was a fan of Madrid, who liked Heavy Metal groups, or that his biggest concern is staying at home watching TV.
That is, we can only be in love with a stranger.
Because as time passes and we get to know us, we see that fails to accompany us to step heights, or the Bernabeu, but instead is passionate about flowers or philately, and that his greatest happiness is to move the Finder by cuttings, or analyzing the Scott, which, as you all know without a doubt the reference catalog philatelic USA. And falling from the tree are now a star, now a glass ball shatters on the floor. But that's not bad, but good. Finally, under the tree is bare, the person as is, as was at first, before the adornasemos with our wishes.
And this person, really, is the person we want. We're not in love with an image, a symbol, we want a real person, their strengths and their weaknesses. If we bother to snore or not a stick into water, it ran out of love and love there will not be there. If we find your snoring endearing, and it seems sexy wake us at night to attack in the dark, or your lack of desire to work is offset by that lively Neapolitan songs can sing, and that's what we love, infatuation will result in love. That is much deeper (although we least affect hormones, which is a shame)
True love is accepting the other as it is, in love as we would like to be.
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June 3rd, 2009 at 21:23
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