3. The Dakini. The Session and Patients
Monday, June 22nd, 2009
Tantric massage is very sensual and sensitive and involves the 5 senses.
The first is to open channels to the patient. And what are channels? channels are energy points known and used in Eastern cultures. West told the first thing is that the patient feel calm and relaxed. With stress, in haste, a clock can not achieve results.
For this we ask you to undress and to shower, hygiene first, but especially for a first state of cleanliness, to leave off campus tantric all pollution, smoke and bustle of everyday life. Clothing, life outside should be outside the massage room.
This is a first preparation, both physically and spiritually for what will come next.
Once the patient is naked on the couch with music prepared especially for the type of session you have selected, start the session itself, which is a fusion of music, speech, movement, and, of course, smells.
Smell of incense, essential oils smell, smell of the candles too often dimly illuminate the scene.
I caress them starting back, as I explain the different sensations noticed. Not just a massage, not just caress of my hands, my body is that at times comes close to his, to promote the exchange of energy, so that they me through how you feel and I can eventually correct session.
Because, although I have a loyal clientele, there are also patients who come to me because "someone" (do not know who) has spoken to me or because I have "found online". You have to discover everything in these patients, because although there are many who, though they come to me by chance, know, know your body and what they want. There are also others who say in the previous interview that do not have erections without Cialis, or that they control their orgasm. Based on this I set the session, perfumes, music, movement, and suddenly I see a tall lingam before even having brought my hands, or with unequivocal signs of a premature ejaculation.
Sometimes that's a problem, sometimes not.
Although the patient is back to me, my hands must travel throughout your body. The buttocks, the channel that separates them, letting my fingers lubricated her anus. That and I have a first signal if the patient closes her legs, I know it will be a difficult case, if, on the contrary, instinctively as a flower opens, leaving your energy flow, I know that the session will be fruitful for both.
I come then to the perineum, and testicles, catching with both hands, feeling its texture and hardness, which tells me a lot of the physical condition of the patient. If they have no muscle tone, if dropped like ripe fruit, if they have a texture "gummy" the session will be complicated, the patient is loose (not that it is, is that I have not known or have not been able to raise their sexual energy, and will require more effort).
Of course, this type of contact, hands well lubricated rubbing, fingering the perineal area (and perianal), often cause an erection in the patient. And then, as before with renewed vigor in the anal area, there are patients who are afraid to move to get comfortable, do not forget that the lingam are on the table, and now they are pressing erection, and may feel ashamed of the situation.
Because a tantric massage may or may not end in orgasm, and there are patients who do not want to end well, is your decision and I, but not share it, respect it. These patients, sometimes, not always, are those who feel ashamed of having an erection in a massage table.
And yet there are patients who do not mind moving your pelvis slightly to place the lingam in a position less annoying, I take time to clear their legs a bit, and then more easily reach both his testicles, as his perineum area and anal that area so unknown to so many men, and so sensitive, dark and wrinkled skin outside the anus ... that contact is a difficult point for many men, which I'll talk tomorrow.
And when I get to this point in the ritual, when I touched the testicles, the perineum, anal area, I know what advice I give the massage, if the patient is ready to learn, to share their energy with me, to participate in a ancestral rite, if change has come to try tantric massage because the girl that by the Burmese in another cabinet was sick, or if, finally, is far from being ready to receive the teachings of a tantric dakini
link to the chapter on how to meet patients
