3. The Dakini. The Session and Patients
Tantric massage is very sensual and sensitive and involves the 5 senses.
The first is to open channels to the patient. And what are channels? canals are energy points known and used in Eastern cultures. West said the first thing is that the patient feel calm and relaxed. With stress, in haste, a clock can not achieve results.
For this we ask you to undress and take a shower for hygiene first, but especially for a first stage cleaning of the enclosure to keep out all the pollution tantric, fumes and bustle of everyday life. Clothes, outside life should be outside the massage room.
This is a first preparation, both physically and spiritually for what will come next.
Once the patient is naked on the couch with music specially prepared for the type of session I have selected, begins the session itself, which is a fusion of music, speech, movement, and, of course, smells.
Smell of incense, the fragrance of essential oils, scent of the candles also tend to faintly illuminate the scene.
Caress them starting back, as I explain the different sensations will notice. Not just a massage, not just touch my hands, my body is that at times comes close to yours to encourage the exchange of energy, so they me through how they feel and I can eventually correct the session.
Because, although I have a loyal clientele, there are also patients who come to me because "someone" (do not know who) has spoken to me, or because I have "found on the Internet." You have to figure it all out in these patients, because although there are many who, though they come to me by chance, know, know your body and what they want. There are also others who say the previous interview that they have erections without Cialis, or that they control their orgasm. Based on this I set the session, perfumes, music, movement, and suddenly I see a lingam erect before you even have approached my hands, or the unmistakable signs of premature ejaculation.
Sometimes that's a problem, sometimes not.
While the patient is back to me, my hands have to travel throughout your body. The buttocks, the channel that separates them, letting my lubricated fingers into your anus. That and I have a first signal if the patient closes her legs, I know it will be a difficult case, if, however, instinctively opens like a flower, leaving the energy flowing, I know that the session will be fruitful for both.
Then came the perineum, and testicles, holding them with both hands, feeling its texture and hardness, which tells me a lot of the physical state of the patient. If they have no muscle tone, if dropped like ripe fruit, if they have a texture "gummy" the session will be complicated, the patient is weak (not that it is, is that I have not heard or I could not lift his sexual energy, and will require more effort).
Sure, this type of contact, well lubricated hands touching, touching the perineal area (and perianal), often cause an erection in the patient. And then, as before the stroke on the anal area, there are patients who are afraid to move to get comfortable, do not forget that the lingam are on the table, and now they are pressing erection, and may feel ashamed of the situation.
For a tantric massage may or may not end in orgasm, and there are patients who do not want to finish well, it is your decision and I, but not share it, respect it. These patients, sometimes, not always, those who are embarrassed to have an erection on a massage table.
And yet there are patients who do not mind moving your pelvis slightly to place the lingam in a position less annoying, I take time to clear their legs a bit, and then more easily reach both his testicles, and your perineum and its area anal that area so unknown to so many men, and so sensitive, dark skin and gathered outside the anus ... that contact is a difficult point for many men, which I'll talk tomorrow.
And when I get to this point in the ritual, when I feel the testicles, the perineum, anal area, I know what advice I give the massage, if the patient is ready to learn, to share their energy with me, to participate in a ancestral rite, if change has come to test the tantric massage because the girl that by the Burmese in another cabinet was sick, or if, finally, is far from being ready to receive the teachings of a tantric dakini
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June 23rd, 2009 at 17:46
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