4. The Dakini. How to know the patient Tantric Massage
Tuesday, June 23rd, 2009
So with unknown patients often must "navigate eye." Because there are patients who do not know how that Tantra, and are surprised that, at one time touch hot spots that cause an erection. And ashamed of it! As if it ought to be a problem for a Tantric Dakini!
While massaging your body will infuse knowledge, teach them to distinguish orgasm from ejaculation premature ejaculation ... if I explain how to masturbate with more awareness, teaching points that determine the "ejaculatory reflex" so precisely to avoid them.
Often premature ejaculation has its roots in a bad autoerotic habits when a person masturbates not necessarily sexual, but as a reflex, to escape for a few moments of the stress of everyday life, the practice becomes, over time, a Starring compulsive seeking an immediate satisfaction.
Tantra can correct these "bad habits" (no moral judgment on this word, are bad as adversely affecting relationships), acting on its root immediately. The distant roots, the root causes of this need fall within the scope of psychologists, and Tantra can not want them replaced. 
As I continue with my hands .. my outflanking. The patient is face down on the couch, and I'm starting to notice a tingling throughout his body is sent to the mine in the form of sexual energy. I invite you then to move your pelvis to open your body, open your energy, I point out the hot spots around the anus and perineum ... over two-thirds do not know, or are unable to accept them as points excitation by a fear of being mistaken for gay.
Sometimes I deviate the hand, or say: no, not here. Obviously, I hear, no force is uncomfortable situations. What I can say is that to attend a tantric session should go with an open mind, because if the mind is not open is impossible to open the body.
If these patients go to another session (sometimes remain as scared, and I suppose in another occasion cabinets will go to more "conventional", which will make a straw in a flash Burmese plasma) and accept my massage, and know that there are no Uninhibited areas.
I continue with my massage ... Eastern oil lubricating all her sex, perineum, and testicles.
I know the receptive state of the patient, who, remember, is lying with the belly on the table to see if you are ready to turn around. It is a difficult time for man to appear naked before the masseuse. And it's a hard time depends on the person, because some people may feel embarrassed by his erection, but also who may be ashamed of his flab. It is best to be the patient who requests to turn around.
This playful slide a hand between his body and the couch, feeling his lingam. If you feel a need to strengthen this drive only been stroking his testicles and the edge of your anus. I feel uncomfortable to the patient, his pelvis that comes to finding my hand, leaving more space for your lingam and bringing the center to my touch. I ask: 
- You want to turn around?
and as he gives it, without worrying about their nudity straight.
If instead I found limp, I try to encourage him with caresses more targeted, with pressures on their first chakra (the pubis) to see if I can erection. Often combined strokes in the year, with oil, and the first chakra, touching the lingam also achieve the expected results.
If I fail, there is no choice but to ask him to turn around.
next chapter: the opening of the body










