4. The Dakini. Getting to know the patient Tantric Massage
So with unknown patients is often necessary to "navigate the sight." Because there are patients who do not know which is the tantra, and are surprised that, at one time touch hot spots that cause erection. And they are ashamed of it! As if this debiese be a problem for a Tantric Dakini!
While massaging your body to infuse knowledge, teach them to distinguish premature orgasm premature ejaculation ... if I explain how to masturbate with more awareness, teaching points that determine the "ejaculatory reflex" that precisely to avoid them.
Often premature ejaculation has a background in autoerotic behavior wrong, when a person masturbates need not sexual, but as a reflex, to escape for a few moments of the stress of daily life, the practice becomes, over time, a Starring compulsive seeking immediate gratification.
Tantra can correct these "bad habits" (no word on moral criteria, are poor in negatively affecting relationships), acting on its root immediately. The distant roots, the root causes of this need belong to the realm of psychologists, and Tantra can not and will replace them. 
As I continue with my hands .. my outflanking. The patient is face down on the couch and I begin to notice a tingling throughout your body that is transmitted to mine in the form of sexual energy. Then I invite you to move your pelvis to open your body, open your energy, I point out the hot spots around the anus and perineum ... more than two-thirds do not know or are unable to accept them as points excitation by a fear of being mistaken for gay.
Sometimes I deviate the hand, or say: no, not here. Obviously, we hear, not about forcing awkward situations. What I can say is to attend a tantric session should go with an open mind, because if the mind is not open is impossible to open the body.
If these patients go to another session (sometimes remain as scared, and I suppose that on another occasion cabinets will go to more "conventional", where they make a straw in a flash Burmese plasma) and accept my massage, and know that there are Uninhibited areas.
... I still have my massage with oil lubricating all sex oriental, perineum, and testicles.
I know the receptive state of the patient, who, remember, is lying with his belly on the table to see if you are ready to turn around. It is a difficult time for man to appear naked before the masseuse. It is a difficult time depends on the person, because some people may feel ashamed of your erection, but also who may be ashamed of his flab. It is best to be the patient who requests to turn over.
This playful hand slipped between his body and the couch, feeling his lingam. If you feel a need to strengthen this drive only been stroking his testicles to the edge of your anus. Noto the patient uncomfortable, her pelvis is to find my hand, leaving more space for the center lingam and bringing to my caresses. I ask you: 
- You want to turn?
and now he gives it, without worrying about their nudity erect.
If instead I found limp, I try to encourage you, with caresses more targeted, with pressures in the first chakra (pubis) to see if an erection. Often touching the anus combined with oil, and the first chakra, also touching the lingam achieve the expected results.
If I fail, there is no choice but to ask you to turn around.
next chapter: the opening of the body
Tags: erection , exhibitionism , tantric massage
June 23rd, 2009 at 17:45
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