3. Post received. The couple and the Dakini
Tuesday, September 8th, 2009As you recall, this is a post I received by email. Data from the person who sent it are at the end of the first post on the subject
In the previous post , had managed to calm her anxiety and the erection of it.
Began the ritual.
We started with the rolling, standing, as being dormant. There are techniques to trick the mind and to enter into unusual states without any drugs ...
It is very pleasant ... I notice that he gives and gives to the experience ... and in return she has difficulty in surrendering, to move sensually, moving his body and pelvis. Give a little feeling, thinking, "Why do I have to pass me this?"
And it's strange, because it is she who called me, is she who has concluded the session. She would have to be involved, and try to drag the other, but it is not. We could be in a couple if manipulative, and it is he who from the shadows to manage the situation, but do not think so.
I explain the use of aphrodisiacs oils brings me a friend of his trips to India and ask them to cherish, standing in the position where they had left in the dance, repeating the ritual of the shower, ie each unciendose first himself, then to the couple. Not required to be the same areas may change. And indeed, if he turns to stroke his lingam, and she her breasts when she who must put oil on it to proceed directly to the back, but now it drops below the waist, buttocks and washes well her thighs. Something we move forward. Now my turn to act.
It is a very delicate point. I always clarify that I adapt to the limit of the couple ... I'm not invasive ... not my intention ... that, without speaking, withdrawing my hand carefully just get the message.
With men there is not much problem, I love to touch them, and they like to touch your partner. We are much more complicated, first because we're not accustomed to that we touch a woman, and second, because it conflicts need to touch your partner sexually.
I ask her to trust, who is not aware of when or where I touch your partner ... that probably was excited, but to trust the experience. But if it bothers you, we can stop the session at any time.
We sat on the mat then three ... (them naked, I took a slightly transparent black robe that reveals, or rather guess, my forms).
Here I ask that you express some quality she admired in her, and then reversed. That love, removes sexual tension to the situation, because it goes into a kind of RPG, which is reinforced with a set of "puppets" as a puppet Tantric wireless. That frees them from responsibility for what they are saying. Sometimes they even ask them to give them a name, for more customized to the wrist, but better than not, at least with an unknown partner. In any case, it is remarkable as a toy breaks through inhibitions, and to express feelings or deep pain. No longer are they, and their bodies are not speaking directly are puppets in a theater.
I ask her the doll explain what you feel when you are going to make love when sex is almost a safety.
I have different puppets, more or less sweet, warm, fluffy, hard as well, for which they are essentially a talking head with the hand movements, which are a vagina or a penis .. and depends on each situation.












