3. Post received. The couple and the Dakini
As you recall, this is a post I received by email. The data of the person who sent it are at the end of the first post on the subject
In the previous post , had managed to calm the anxiety of it and erect it.
Began the ritual.
We started with the rolling, standing, as being numb. They are techniques to trick the mind and power enter unusual states without any drugs ...
It is very pleasant ... I notice that he gives and gives to the experience ... and in return she has difficulty in surrendering, to move sensually, moving his body and pelvis. Give a little feeling of thinking, "Why I have to pass me this?"
And it's strange, because it is she who called me, it is she who has concluded the session. She would have to be involved and try to drag the other, but it is not. We could be a case of manipulative partner, and is he who from the shadows manage the situation, but I do not think that way.
I explain the use of aphrodisiac oils that I bring a friend of his trips to India and ask them to cherish, standing in the position where the ball had remained behind, repeating the ritual of the shower, ie each unciendose first himself, then to the couple. Not required to be the same areas may change. And indeed, if he turns to stroke his lingam, and she her breasts when she who must put oil on it goes directly to the back, but now it falls below the waist, buttocks and washes well thighs. Something we move forward. Now my turn to act.
It is a very delicate point. I clarify that I always adapt to the limit of the couple ... I'm not invasive and is not my intention ... ... that, without speaking, withdrawing my hand carefully just get the message.
With men there is not much problem, I love to touch them, and they like to touch your partner. We are much more complicated, first because we're not accustomed to that we touch a woman, and second, because it conflicts need to touch your partner sexually.
I ask her to rely, that is not yet where or when I touch your partner ... you probably get excited, but relying on the experience. But if it bothers you, we can stop the session at any time. 
We sat on the mat then three ... (them naked, I wear a black robe slightly transparent, which shows, or rather guess, my forms).
Here I ask that you express it some quality she admires in her, and then backwards. That love, sexual tension off the situation, because it enters a sort of RPG, which is reinforced with a set of "puppets" like a puppet tantric wireless. That frees them from responsibility for what they are saying. Sometimes they even ask you to give them a name, personalize it more to the wrist, but better than not, at least with an unknown partner. In any case, it is remarkable as a toy breaks through the inhibitions, and to express feelings or grief. No longer are they, and not their bodies that speak directly, are puppets in a theater.
I ask her the doll explain what you feel when you are going to make love when sex is almost a safety.
I have different puppets, more or less sweet, warm, fluffy, hard too, which is essentially a talking head with the hand movements, which are a vagina or a penis .. and depends on each situation.
Tags: dakini , Kundalini , tantric massage , ritual
September 8th, 2009 at 19:16
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