Penetration, auto sacramental ¿?
It would have to make the difference between fucking, making love, and make love
We could say that making love is a cheesy way of saying fuck, but it is different, with gray areas (or rather, roses) that overlap among the three.
Fuck is this, fucking, having sex itself. You can find a partner / a bed to fuck. It is, say, a rather masculine purely procreative pursuit of pleasure. The pleasure of gay saunas in dark rooms. We would say that the penetration is simply a necessary step to overcome a physical obstacle
Making love is, well, fuck, there's a part of search purely sexual pleasure, but with the other recognized as a person, not just as a sex. There is a special look into the other, at least at the time that you let into your body, or enter your own. And that does not stop what prime is the pursuit of pleasure.
And making love is something else. That technique does not matter, it hardly matters sexual pleasure, because there is something more important, which is the fusion with the other, full communion. The penetration goes far beyond a physical act, is a spiritual act, almost a sacramental. And the orgasm, if it comes, welcome. Someday special lovemaking turns into making love, if the couple is willing to play a little. Not always. Where and how, never happens.
And - I finally am a man - women who love them enough to make love, and men, sometimes we need to get laid.
And that seems to have trouble understanding you, my dear little grasshoppers.
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Tags: auto sacramental , making love , penetration
