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It would have to make the difference between fucking, making love and making love

We could say that making love is a cheesy way of saying fuck, but it is different, with gray areas (or rather roses) that overlap among the three.

Fuck is this, fucking, having sex itself. You can find a partner / a bed to fuck. It is, say, a rather masculine pursuit of pleasure purely reproductive health. The pleasure of gay saunas in dark rooms. We would say that the penetration is simply a necessary step to overcome a physical obstacle

Making love is also screwed, there is a search of the purely sexual pleasure, but with the other recognized as a person, not just as a sex. There is a special look into the other, at least at the time that you let into your body, or enter your own. And that does not stop what prime is the pursuit of pleasure.

And making love is something else. That does not matter the technique, it hardly matters sexual pleasure, because there is something more important, which is merging with the other, the full communion. The penetration goes far beyond a physical act, is a spiritual act, almost a sacramental. And the orgasm, if it comes, welcome. Someday special lovemaking becomes making love, if the couple is willing to play a little. Not always. As and, never happens.

And - I finally am a man - that women just love them to love, and men, sometimes we need to get laid.

And that seems to have trouble understanding you, my dear little grasshoppers.

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