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This is the last chapter of a story I received by mail, indicate the condition of the phone of the Dakini, is the first post

This last chapter has been a bit long, but there comes a time when you can not, should not be stopped.

I liked the whole story, and the situation, but above all a statement released today: "We have taught a sex explosion and implosion." It is said very quickly, but there is much to think about it.

Next step, hands off, both lying on the mat, I do connect with your saliva your mouth feeling moist ... .. play with your tongue .... (there is connection of the palate with Yoni) ... Tantra is the cult of the senses ... but it is a language so forgotten ... We have been taught a sex explosion and implosion ... not all metisaca and were about two of them. And I had to break the pattern explosive sexual tension was to reduce the epidermal, skin, erection in men, lubrication and strengthening mujar in deep sexual energy, which the kidneys, lower abdomen, the ovaries and testes.

And the heart, especially the heart.

Feel your body, everything, face, mouth, stomach, genitals ... there are men who tell me that after having experienced a true Tantric session, and not sleeping around looking for table tennis was ...

I see that it has opened, and touches the male with love .. taught him tricks with your fingers: the hoop, scissors, the fro, tingling, vibration ... this session is very dedicated to her because it required it ... but each session is a world ... and there are also steps ... here we have connected with basics ... breath, saliva, petting ... had an excellent exercise that is very powerful "expansion-contraction" each part of the room ... are naked ... and ask them on the floor ... Self-paced work with the slogan paying attention to your genitals ... especially I ask her to exaggerate the movement as a vulva-pelvis ...

He commented that he was amazed to see such movements in it ... you never saw so she said it gave much pleasure and that he was not a whore ... We joined in a dance music three ethnic hindu ... ... undulating movements very erotic ... I play them both ... and I see that are much more responsive .. she has a smile on his lips ... and I are encouraged to play the lingam of her causes him ... ... with the buttocks, and she is about too.

I put softer music, nature sounds, a rainy evening on a lake, and tell them that we are about to end, that is only to feel the pulse of another in the genitals. We tend the three on the mat, she in the center, one on each side, and ask her to take with one hand the lingam it, put the tips of your fingers on the back, in the channel formed between the corpora cavernosa, and where you notice the contractions of orgasm, and still, try to feel the heart of it.

And he himself, who put two fingers on the clitoris and wait. Neither should any movement, listen to music and focus all feeling in the fingertips. I for one support the fingers at the entrance to her vagina, she pushes a bit to come again, and if there feel the pulse of it. Strong, powerful, she says she feels the pulse of the, well, move a little finger, I tap the point G, I notice your body to draw, attract, embrace my fingers, your pelvis forward to the meeting, it should work.

I ask her to put astride it, without fear that she will be to control the penetration, and stay still, just feeling my hand until I asked to slowly lower the lingam that I guide you. And so we do, she gets on top, sitting, legs apart, eyes open, staring, and I though I keep it, I'm touching her, opening the way, feeling the muscles of the entrance to her vagina completely loose, your body open, waiting for the man.

I ask him to come down now, slowly, to regulate the penetration, speed, depth. And while I stand the lingam it, feel your body's moment of doubt when it appears that it will close, the small effort, but immediately, the movement is deep and come, her body to meet the hug . I could leave, let alone take my hand hurts, but I'm more.

I half rose to go with the desire to go there, my hand between the two bodies, taking at once the strength of the wet and feeling the desire for it.

"Do not leave me he says, she says nothing, looks at me and smiles." I stand for.

She leans back, I stand the lingam to lean on or at point G, she has an orgasm, a moment that leaves my hand flooded, amrita will? But it can not last long session, she is satisfied, it can not dry and boring, so I put my fingers in V lingam embracing him as he moves to the pressure. The enduring, like a wild boar. It can not continue if she gets tired and it hurts, rather than heal, the session will have spoiled him even more. So that must end.

I spend my other hand to the point of a million dollars, a point between the testicles and anus, support, and there I notice that your body is stressed, that orgasm is imminent. Comes, how will not come!, My fingers feel the contractions of your belly, feel the blows of his lingam in the yoni of it, as your body tense as a bow. It seems never ending, still moving, ever more slowly, until she leans over and hugs him. A rain of amrita and semen wet my hands when she bends. I love it.

I give to smell my hand full of them two, she smells it, not reject it, is but, also spend their hands and are offering to him, that lame.

I get up, I threw a blanket over it, and go.

After a while, and showered, I hear the groans again, her and him. I leave you alone, I do not need.

I think that was a good job ... this is it opposed to the instructions of his mother ... and she is, and not her mother, who is in bed. The next day she called me thanking me for the experience ... you want to continue ...

comes from an email sent to me with the history and condition, if published, to indicate the data are in the first post.

It is the story of a tantric massage, and couples therapy, link to previous post.

The lingam of it without seeing it, just imagining the situation was already showing its desire to erect ... it's funny, but even dakinis, when the man in this situation, we feel its energy, we took advantage of it. However, if this is a woman, but rather we vampirizes ours. But that's another story that may explain another day.

She also felt the sexual energy ... you do connect with scenes of pleasure as a child ... those that she loved but had nothing to do with sex. But that little by little, was oriented here and now. Receiving and giving pleasure, which gradually took in his hands the lingam of her partner, like a fragile porcelain, but I wanted to take care and give pleasure ... the slogan was just playing, do not induce orgasm ... I expressed can not, who knows, who ever has (is it possible that a woman with thirty well done, has not ever played with her partner's penis?), which gives shame ...

I ask you to remove the bandage and show you, if she accepts, as running a lingam. I ask him to breathe ... and I look at you ... do not seek ... look for the opening explosion of energy, .... men here are amazed, because I do so when a couple, there is only pleasure without erection (sometimes, this man was particularly complicated, and could not have him not counting breaths until bored). That's the beauty of Tantra ... there is a goal ... the goal is the journey ... the end she tries to imitate ... and takes it as a game .. but not like ... as you lose the fear .... I teach expand the movement, not just with their hands, also with his body, like a dance ... or dance with you to activate your Kundalini and shed at the end of thinking "large, painful, dirty" .... begins to laugh with pleasure ... I'm liking what you do ... you know the trick, and, above all, losing the false modesty that had caught in their nets ... now I come also in action .... We two, she wants to touch me, but it is not that. But something if you want help, I've had children, I have episiotomy, I have sewn course, I'm normal, and I ask you as I have, first put on a glove, and then comparing the size of your vagina with mine. You will see that some more or less equal, and may enter one finger, two or three without any problem. First he says no, but curious, and I said okay, give it a try.

It's not something you normally do, a tantra session is no shared sex session, but in this case it suited her and I finally did not care. I will say more, there is some pleasure to teach someone who, despite his age, a virgin in some respects. But there is a very delicate border that can not be transferred, not just during the session, but also in remembering that the session left. That is, something that may seem "normal" in the session can be recalled later as a trio. And is not that. But in this case we had three very well connected, the session was progressing in a pleasant way to its end and I think I must explain that no, they were both normal.

Put the glove, and I scanned (no other word) like a gynecologist.
I say that this is not, to be softer, more loving, more sweet. He is surprised that is wet, my question directly: "Are you excited?" I said yes, which are the body's natural response to sexual energy, and that do not involve the desire to have an orgasm, just something that as it comes leaves. As if the eye itches more tears. He asks how we should cherish, and say that just as he had explained to him before, looking for my G, but only to find that along the entire vagina with two fingers, but once done, stop, or I want or I take pleasure in a session, nor need it. And that makes it, now softly, softly, lost in the wet corners, the smell of my body bends, without any shame.

Meanwhile, in the glory .... ... Panting ... full of energy all the time saying "ayyyy, for God" guauuu, My God I hear this phrase a lot in meetings ... and is that tantra is to hit the door to God ... ( E we will say the atheists) but very special experience in ecstasy ...

continue in the last chapter

As you recall, this is a post I received by email. As this stretching a bit, and posting at some point I added photos. At the request of the person who wrote it (who incidentally, has sent me an email saying thanks calls men and women who have you been in touch with her), said his phone in the first post

We were now to stop playing with dolls (and would not contribute anything more), and play with dolls. Dirty is it a doll? no, really, let us now explore the other's body as if it were a new doll. The game is to combine our three hands, and I will guide what to play. You will notice that there are no prohibited areas, there are no taboos areas, but if anyone bothers you, change the game. And you have to connect to the body, with pleasure, you ought to concentrate, visualize and feel the path of the hands in each other's bodies. If my hands touch your lips, I imagine that the lips are touched mine, I think what I'm feeling at this moment, in the exercise of a split personality which frees the real sense. It's hard to imagine what the other feels, and more if the other is of the opposite sex, as I woman, a man feels when he stroked.

And if something like it, you have to point it out, you have to moan, moans, sighs, sentences of pleasure feeds the other. That sex is not to open your legs and you get wet, or if you're a man, get rid of your semen load within seconds of pleasure.

Tantra teaches you to connect with pleasure ... and not only pleasure in bed ... but the joy in life itself ... and enjoy the little or much we have ..

I give as an example of a lover who I have .... not much because we travel a lot ... but when we see an eternity I enjoy that moment ... I give and I'm thinking that if ... or if it otherwise .... Master Osho talks a lot to enjoy the present moment ... ... If you eat an apple. COME therefore, feel the apple ...

I explain that we will touch some exercises to soften that memory cell that is blocking ... breathing is the key ... key here are my hands and breathing ... I ask them to catch the loving hands, and are present without judging ... emerges and what emerges is not cutting it ... .. if there is weeping, weeping as they butt .. is the best medicine.

I wear latex gloves (you have to put a barrier, not only hygienic, but also emotional, I'm the therapist, not the third of the trio), and tell them to start walking her body. Do not want to excite him, and I feel that is what you'd like, but it is she who must be persuaded, and erect lingam is the best medicine in this situation. To distract them (especially him, that is always about his lingam, less when speaking), I show that the towels are disposable ... use cotton for smooth texture, to open their energy Tantric ...

We travel the three her body, his hand on the body over mine, guiding, and it above all as protecting, passing. I note that he fondles her breasts, down, goes to the thighs, back to the breasts, neck ... but what about sex? I notice that she is open to the experience, the barrier of my gloves gives you confidence, a good sign when you want to evolve ... other courses close your legs .. or go to the bathroom ... (evasion) ...

The music helps a lot in the process .... Are a very special, very serious in tone ... I ask you both to feel his saliva, his jaw, all closely connected with the sexual part .... As the touch surface, I notice that your hips move toward us, like asking for more. But he does not want, avoids ... why is it so it is not delivered? Or is he who is afraid of the rejection of it?. Complicated. I think I analyze, understand better what happens. Blindfolded both. I do not want to be distracted, much less to confuse roles and the situation. I tell them I'm going to play. To the touch it with great care not to excite him (even so I fail, he is about to explode), I ask you to breathe deeply, to make OMMMM each expiration, and the count (that's definitely a man, is incapable of having and maintaining an erection And I do it.

The play directly across the vulvar area, without ado, is not excited, though I notice that your vagina is delivered .... There vislumba fluids ... and a smile on your face ... I invite you to feel ... the continued holding her hand .. I ask him to move like a cat in heat ... in bed, but feeling his column ... opening their legs ... it was beautiful to see her ... I introduced a finger into her vagina. It seemed normal sized, well lubricated, there should be no problem. I pushed a second finger, and her hips moved to meet my hand. I asked her to move, billowing, that if he wanted to touch him, timidly approached two fingers to their sex, and immediately retired to take them to the nose. Of course, there was a problem there.

I replaced my hand on his hand, asked him to do the same I had done, first one finger, then a second, which runs through the interior, which had to be set at that space, the entrance was a bit cramped, but if he entered two fingers, also enter the lingam, which was wider in, I explained how to find the G spot, how to recognize it once found. She told him not to leave to move, their movements were sensual and seductive, which was true ...

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As you recall, this is a post I received in the form of first-person email describing a session of tantric couples therapy. Not if it's true what is said, but I liked the story. The only condition that regard, indicate the name and phone number of the author, who is in and he first post . The photos (if any) I have given them, and have no relation to post author

We were three on the mat, each of us has a doll of those fist, and asked them to verbalize what they feel when you breathe in the air sex, but has not begun yet, and from here, that dolls talk about what they want.

We started it, it's easy. It has a lot to say, explaining that his wrist is always willing, that you want from who knew that before making love, before getting into bed feeling a vibration in your body similar to the one feeling at that same time, a sense of anticipation in his head rather than their sex. My questions (well, at my wrist) whether this provision is immediately before, or long before, I said to begin in the morning and all day does not remove the sex of the head.

But at the same time is concerned, knowing that the time more pleasant it is for him, the penetration, it hurts. She feels her body and closed, as if, as if his body was not welcome. Then, once inside the two are comfortable until he makes any sudden movement, pushes the kidneys, which again I feel a blockage in her body. And from this moment, it's over, the party is over, notice that she wants to end, puts his hand on his dick (so he says), and while it is moving inside her, she makes the earwig to be run faster. Not true, says her wrist, I do this because I know you like!. Yes, and you like to finish and leave you alone to go to the bathroom and shower.

oops, bad vibes, I control the situation if I do not want to end up dolls scattered on the floor, and they get angry. So, in line with what was being said, explaining her what he likes now, thinking I was going to talk about it. But no, she did not want to talk, and says, thinking every sentence, which is moved by the touch of skin on your back, hard and tender at the same time, the nerve of her ass when pushed, although you do some damage but, above all, his gentleness, care when it, as if about to break, but, of course, which almost makes mourn (and I say crying) is first and above all, pleasure him, his stress on the moment of orgasm, as his face changes after orgasm face, a face hard, aggressive before, a helpless baby face later.

And that this is enough, that does not need more.

I speak of the pleasure of it. I ask him, what she feels in her body. No eye contact, look at the doll, which says:

it hurts when he enters, which is only now, but if he moves too abruptly, and therefore is afraid. That is like when you forget the fear because you look at his face and tries to forget his body.

Who has ever tried to put his hands on his ass, but who dares not, that is stroking the back (where he had just taken a shower) you would like to go down to the buttocks, but not sure if you must, if he would like or would find that these things are whores. And in any case, it is possible that she had left some remains of his mother, who always said that touching the saw, baby, do not touch there, baby, wash your hands after pee, baby, the girls sleep arms above the covers.

... My God ... uuffffffffffffffffffffffff is fantastic that this has left ...

We did become aware that it was she and not her mother who was making love, which is essentially cultural dirt, but the body of the beloved, as the son, not dirty. That sex in itself is not dirty.

(Continued)

As you recall, this is a post I received by email. The data of the person who sent it are at the end of the first post on the subject

In the previous post , had managed to calm the anxiety of it and erect it.

Began the ritual.

We started with the rolling, standing, as being numb. They are techniques to trick the mind and power enter unusual states without any drugs ...

It is very pleasant ... I notice that he gives and gives to the experience ... and in return she has difficulty in surrendering, to move sensually, moving his body and pelvis. Give a little feeling of thinking, "Why I have to pass me this?"

And it's strange, because it is she who called me, it is she who has concluded the session. She would have to be involved and try to drag the other, but it is not. We could be a case of manipulative partner, and is he who from the shadows manage the situation, but I do not think that way.

I explain the use of aphrodisiac oils that I bring a friend of his trips to India and ask them to cherish, standing in the position where the ball had remained behind, repeating the ritual of the shower, ie each unciendose first himself, then to the couple. Not required to be the same areas may change. And indeed, if he turns to stroke his lingam, and she her breasts when she who must put oil on it goes directly to the back, but now it falls below the waist, buttocks and washes well thighs. Something we move forward. Now my turn to act.

It is a very delicate point. I clarify that I always adapt to the limit of the couple ... I'm not invasive and is not my intention ... ... that, without speaking, withdrawing my hand carefully just get the message.

With men there is not much problem, I love to touch them, and they like to touch your partner. We are much more complicated, first because we're not accustomed to that we touch a woman, and second, because it conflicts need to touch your partner sexually.

I ask her to rely, that is not yet where or when I touch your partner ... you probably get excited, but relying on the experience. But if it bothers you, we can stop the session at any time.

We sat on the mat then three ... (them naked, I wear a black robe slightly transparent, which shows, or rather guess, my forms).
Here I ask that you express it some quality she admires in her, and then backwards. That love, sexual tension off the situation, because it enters a sort of RPG, which is reinforced with a set of "puppets" like a puppet tantric wireless. That frees them from responsibility for what they are saying. Sometimes they even ask you to give them a name, personalize it more to the wrist, but better than not, at least with an unknown partner. In any case, it is remarkable as a toy breaks through the inhibitions, and to express feelings or grief. No longer are they, and not their bodies that speak directly, are puppets in a theater.

I ask her the doll explain what you feel when you are going to make love when sex is almost a safety.

I have different puppets, more or less sweet, warm, fluffy, hard too, which is essentially a talking head with the hand movements, which are a vagina or a penis .. and depends on each situation.

(Continued)

As you recall, this is a post I received by email. I must insist that no one be fooled, the pictures I have selected the purposes of illustration, not the author of the post. Your data is, at her request, at the end of the first post .

In the previous post , had left the couple in the shower, that if, back to back.

Well as I said, they were back to back, took about half a minute there when you enter me.

His lingam was fully erect. Despite being back to back. All this wait, not only in the shower, if the preparation, think about how they were going to wear, how to elapse the session, what they would do once there they were excited ... the situation, the shower, I was them watching ... and give them the guidelines ....

I turn off the lamp Himalayan salt bath and left alone with 10 scented candles and music ... to daydream ...

Gently with a sponge bath, while I ask you where you want to be soapy verbalize, it's a way to go breaking his mental chip and connect with their senses. The words distract from the sensual touch of the sponge, the body is feeling, but the intellect does not rationalize. Igual podía haberle pedido que recitase la lista de la compra, se trata de romper la relación entre sexo y espíritu racional, para que no se cuelen de rondón la vergüenza y los prejuicios.

Les pido también que se duchen el uno al otro, cogiendo los dos la ducha, y tocandose solamente la mano que comparte la ducha, no los cuerpos, y que cada uno de ellos dirija la ducha, compartiendo. Primero en la zona propia que más les apetece (él apunta directamente su pene, ella sus pechos) y despues en el cuerpo del otro. El, tambien, los pechos de ella, ella en cambio, evita su lingam, le hace dar la vuelta y se lo envia a la espalda, desde los hombros que tiene anchos, hasta la cintura. Ella evita las zonas más claramente erógenas de él. Ya tenemos una pista.

Porque el ritual tántrico no es un ritual, en el sentido de una receta, es mucho más que eso, es, también, sanación, guiado, Hay que adaptarlo al (oa los) pacientes.

Luego les pido que cada uno seque al otro…. tienen 10 toallas pequeñas y desechables (todo es desechable) de aseo y son fáciles de manipular y así van haciendo masaje sin quererlo y de paso no pueden dejar zonas por secar.

Ella ya se le nota más relajada, más abierta a la experiencia. Cuando le está secando el pene, me mira como diciendo: “ves, ya te lo decía yo”. La verdad es que él está excitado, habrá que bajarlo si realmente quiero que ella lo acepte, que no lo vea como una agresión. El podía haber tomado sus precauciones, se lo diré la próxima vez.

Pasamos al ritual tantrico, donde ya estan preparado los cojines…,zona perfumada… velas…nos sentamos en el suelo los 3… y explico que no es un orgía, pero que vamos a trabajar con la energía sexual del cuerpo… que es energía de Vida…ella se empieza a poner nerviosa ya toser…. Les pido que hagan unos ejercicios especiales que domino con la respiración para relajar y disipar la mente y los pensamientos…

Soy experta en esto, mis maestros tántricos dicen que tengo muy desarrollado el 6º y el 7º chackra, por eso en mis sesiones la gente se relaja mucho, les hago volar; a veces es mi sola presencia la que genera este estado, sin hacer yo nada especial.

Empieza la sesión, comienzo con al respiración circular para ir entrando en trance la musica muy bien seleccionada. El entra perfectamente, su erección desaparece, ya pesar de ello, a ella le cuesta un poquito, pero hay mucha voluntad… se esmera, le cojo la mano para darle seguridad y confianza. Y allí, en aquel momento, su mano me dice que su cuerpo se abre como Loto… capto el ejercicio…. es la parte mas importante de la sesión… es como poner el starter al coche un dia de invierno…

continuará

At the root of my posts about massage, I received an email with a story I'd like to share with you. I do not know if the story is real and it matters little in the background, it is credible, and that gives interest.

Apparently, male masseurs not only treat, but also couples. This is the story:

Well, how rare she requested the session and not, as often happens always, and was a session partner. I asked the age, she was 32 years, 39 ... It was difficult to explain on the phone a little what was the situation that led them to contact me. Finally, in a whisper, told me that she has difficulty in penetration, it hurts, do not have orgasms ... have the idea that the penis is very large.

We were, under the cabinet, do a flower arrangement (men less interested in these things), and when they realized immediately that he had come reluctantly, but he loved her.

First of all you have to make patients feel comfortable talking about anything and everything, have lived together for five years, everything is going fine except the bed. If you make love, but as it hurts - not always but often - look derivatives. And when you really want to make love, overflowing with lubricant. She complains that he is not fit, that has it enoooooooooorme, very wide, and now that the child will wish that was not shared bottle of Durex.

He says nothing.

I was intrigued to see him. The truth is that the cabinet passed all kinds of people, but few with a penis enooooooooorme.

Comienzo el ritual tántrico. Ahora todas las masajistas se adjetivan como “tántricas”. Se ha creado un tantra falso, que consiste en dos o tres técnicas, más viejas que el andar a pie, y que tratan – sin exito – de retrasar el orgasmo. Tantra es mucho más que eso, el acto sexual constituye una parte mínima, tantra es una aproximación holística al sexo, que incluye movimientos, olores, musica, ambiente, y, como no ciertas técnicas.

Así que antes de la ducha la preparo a ella, especialmente las manos…le enseño unos ejercicios para abrir sus dedos que me enseño una bailarina hindu en Puna, y le pido a él que se meta en la ducha, que al poco le traeré yo a la NOVIA.

Le explico a ella que yo asistiré al ritual del baño, iré dando las instrucciones, y que en lo posible deben hacer lo que les digo. Que hay mucho de expresión verbal en el baño, que el sonido del agua facilita el hablar.

Les explico que primero entrará ella sola, y deben ponerse espalda con espalda, sin mirarse, luego entraré yo y les dirigiré.

Entra ella, tras medio minuto, que se acostumbren a la sala, a la situación, al tacto de la espalda del otro sin mirarse, entro yo. No puedo evitar el mirar la enoooorme verga de él, ya erecta. Y puedo decir que de enorme nada, de tamaño normal. Tal vez algo mas gruesa que la media, pero tampoco un mismo pene está igual todos los días. Ibamos a tener que cambiar el guión, yo venía preparada para una incompatibilidad física, “no cabe”, y no era eso. Excepto que ella fuese anormalmente estrecha (y ya le habia preguntado si habia tenido hijos – no – porque España tiene el dudoso record de episiotomias en el parto, y una episiotomia cerrada más de la cuenta, o mal cicatrizada genera vaginas demasiado estrechas.

Eso es lo primero que debía averiguar.

(continuará)

La unica condición para publicar el post es que pusiese su nombre, Deborah, su teléfono 647 298 354 y que dijese que está en Barcelona. Las fotos son sacadas de Internet, porque su correo no contenía ninguna

El masaje Tántrico es muy sensual y sensitivo y en él intervienen los 5 sentidos.

Lo primero es abrir los canales al paciente. Y qué son los canales? los canales son puntos energéticos conocidos y utilizados en las culturas orientales. Dicho a la occidental, lo primero es que el paciente se sienta tranquilo y relajado. Con estress, con prisas, con reloj no se pueden lograr resultados.

Para ello le pido que desnude y que se duche, por higiene primero, pero sobre todo, para lograr un primer estado de limpieza, para dejar fuera del recinto tantrico toda la contaminación, humos y prisas de la vida diaria. La ropa, la vida de fuera deben quedar en el exterior del gabinete de masaje.

Se trata que una primera preparación, tanto física como espiritual para lo que va a venir a continuación.

Una vez está el paciente desnudo en la camilla, con música preparada especialmente para el tipo de sesión que he seleccionado, empieza la sesión propiamente dicha, que es una fusión entre música, palabra, movimientos, y, cómo no, olores.

Olor de incienso, olor de aceites esenciales, olor tambien de las velas que suelen alumbrar tenuemente la escena.

Les acaricio empezando por la espalda, mientras les explico las diferentes sensaciones que van a notar. No es solo un masaje, no es solo caricia de mis manos, es todo mi cuerpo que en algunos momentos se acerca al suyo, para favorecer el intercambio de energia, para que ellos me traspasen como se sienten y yo pueda, eventualmente, corregir la sesión.

Porque, aunque tengo una clientela fiel, tambien hay pacientes que llegan a mi porque “alguien” (no saben quien) les ha hablado de mi, o porque me han “encontrado en Internet”. Hay que descubrirlo todo en estos pacientes, porque aunque hay muchos que, aunque hayan llegado a mi por casualidad, se conocen, conocen su cuerpo y lo que buscan. Tambien existen otros que dicen en la entrevista previa que no tienen erecciones sin Cialis, o que ellos controlan su orgasmo. En función de esto ajusto la sesión, los perfumes, la musica, los movimientos, y de pronto me encuentro con un lingam erguido antes siquiera de haber acercado mis manos, o con los signos inequivocos de un eyaculador precoz.

A veces eso es un problema, a veces no.

Aunque el paciente esté de espaldas a mi, mis manos deben recorrer todo su cuerpo. Los glúteos, el canal que los separa, dejando pasar mis dedos lubricados por su ano. Ahí ya tengo una primera señal, si el paciente cierra las piernas, sé que será un caso dificil, si, por el contrario, instintivamente se abre como una flor, dejando fluir su energía, sé que la sesión será provechosa para ambos.

Llego entonces al perineo, ya los testiculos, cogiendolos con ambas manos, notando su textura y su dureza, que me dice mucho del estado fisico del paciente. Si no tienen tono muscular, si están caídos como fruta madura, si tienen una textura “gomosa” la sesión va a ser complicada, el paciente está flojo (no es que lo sea, es que yo no he sabido o no he podido levantar su energia sexual, y será preciso un mayor esfuerzo).

Claro, este tipo de contactos, manos bien lubricadas rozando, palpando la zona perineal (y perianal), suelen provocar una ereccion en el paciente. Y entonces, igual que antes con las caricias en la zona anal, hay pacientes que temen moverse para ponerse comodos, no olvidemos que estan con el lingam sobre la camilla, y ahora la erección les está presionando, y que se pueden sentir avergonzados de la situación.

Porque un masaje tantrico puede o no acabar en orgasmo, y hay pacientes que no quieren que acabe asi, es su decisión y yo, aunque no la comparta, la respeto. Estos pacientes, a veces, no siempre, son los que se sienten avergonzados de tener una erección en una camilla de masaje.

Y en cambio hay pacientes a quienes no importa mover un poco su pelvis, para colocar el lingam en posicion menos molesta, momento que aprovecho para abrirles un poco las piernas, y alcanzar entonces con mayor facilidad tanto sus testiculos, como su perineo y su zona anal esa zona tan desconocida para tantos hombres, y tan sensible, la piel oscura y fruncida del exterior del ano… ese contacto es un punto dificil para muchos hombres, del cual hablaré mañana.

Y cuando llego a este punto del ritual, cuando he palpado los testiculos, la zona perineal, la zona anal, ya sé qué orientación debo darle al masaje, si el paciente está preparado para aprender, para compartir su energia conmigo, para participar en un rito ancestral, si en cambio ha venido a probar el masaje tantrico porque la chica que hacia el birmano en otro gabinete estaba enferma, o si, finalmente, está muy lejos de estar preparado para recibir las enseñanzas de una dakini tantrica

link al capitulo de como conocer a los pacientes

Las Dakinis trabajamos con la energía sexual… la sabemos dirigir hacia otras partes del cuerpo, no sólo los genitales. Llevamos más consciencia al cuerpo de la persona… Sólo son mis manos con ternura y presencia que hablan con el cuerpo de la otra persona. No me da miedo tocar…me olvido de mi ego… y me rindo a la experiencia.

Ya dependiendo del paciente, a veces visto una prenda ligera tapando mis pechos, pero otras veces no, porque es importante “sentir” el cuerpo de la otra persona y las manos no bastan.

Eso si, depende de lo cómodo que esté en paciente con su cuerpo, de cómo se acepte a si mismo como ente sexual. Si pregunta, por ejemplo, “qué sucede si tengo una ereccion?” pues ya sé que se sentirá más tranquilo si estoy cubierta.

En este tipo de masaje hay que DAR, pero no se pueda dar sin saber qué espera el paciente. No se puede enseñar a escribir a quien está aprendiendo a leer. Para eso está la entrevista, y sobre todo la OBSERVACION…por eso yo no puedo dar más de 3 masajes al día. Estoy dando energía pura.

Para los Tántricos es fundamental conservar la energía sexual, no desperdiciar el fluido o semen. Esto requiere ser muy habilidosa porque por un lado hay que abrir los canales energéticos, y por el otro evitar que se produzca la explosión del orgasmo.

Las dakinis aprendemos a frenar el instinto de expulsión y prolongar ese estado de placer… y os aseguro que se logra, siempre que estemos allí presente y no estemos pensando en tender la colada.

Y, antes de iniciar la descripción de cómo es un masaje tántrico, sus fases (que no las tiene, porque no es un ritual), si que me gustaría explicar qué siente la Dakini cuando está realizando el masaje.

En un masaje tantrico se alcanzan todas las zonas del cuerpo, incluso las más recónditas, incluso las más secretas, y se acarician con aceite perfumado. La sesión se realiza en un lugar cómodo, con música suave, movimientos lentos, concentrados en los sentidos, en la respiración en una suerte de claustro materno. Existe una situación de intimidad y sensualidad compartidas que podrían derivar con mucha facilidad hacia una sesión de sexo.

Existe la teoria “socialmente correcta” que ni los médicos, ni los sicoanalistas, ni, mucho menos, las masajistas puedan sentirse sexualmente atraidos hacia el o la paciente. Esto hace que todo el mundo se sienta más cómodo, pero es una regla general, que como todo, admite excepciones.

En determinados casos, cuando hay afinidad de piel, quimica con la persona, no puede evitar la Dakini el sentir una excitacion sensual. Pero esta excitación, inevitable, no debe hacer perder de vista el objetivo, que es despertar el erotismo del paciente, frenando al mismo tiempo su culminación.

Cuando tengo una mano en el lingam de un paciente, cuando tengo la otra mano en “el punto del millón de dólares”, que es un punto en el perineo que acelera e incluso, bien tocado, dispara el orgasmo, no puedo estar además pendiente de mis sentidos. Debo olvidar mi propia sexualidad, mis pulsiones. Mi espiritu, mi mente, mis manos y mi inteligencia estan leyendo los signos en el cuerpo del paciente, los signos secretos que indican si está cerca del orgasmo, y en consecuencia debo cambiar de ritmo o de movimiento si quiero que el cliente llegue al final de la sesión, pedirle que respire hondo, con todo su cuerpo, o bien su placer está alejado, y en consecuencia puedo seguir con el masaje.

Evidentemente, esta búsqueda del equilibrio requiere que la Dakini, es decir, yo, me olvide de mi propio cuerpo y de sus sensaciones, que pueden o no existir, dependiendo del paciente, de su piel, de su sensibilidad, y, por que no, de la quimica de su cuerpo con el mio.

Y, cuando llega el final del masaje debo buscar en los puntos secretos los movimientos que disparan el placer, para que el paciente obtenga una mayor sabiduria sobre su cuerpo, sobre las técnicas de respiración que permiten regular su orgasmo, sobre los movimientos y puntos que lo provocan, y, para ciertos clientes, los diferentes tipos de orgasmo.

Debo reconocer que aprecio esta parte del masaje, me gusta ver el cuerpo del paciente en el momento de su placer, lo siento en mi misma como una culminación de mi trabajo, y es en cierto modo el premio a una labor bien hecha. Me gusta sentir la tension de todos los músculos, sus espasmos, sus vibraciones profundas en el momento del orgasmo, sentir el palpitar jabonoso de su lingam en ese momento, casi tanto como ver su estupor por las sensaciones logradas en un orgasmo que tal vez sea el más completo que ha tenido en su vida.

Evidentemente para la Dakini la entrega de energia sexual debe ser muy limitada, y aunque a veces su cuerpo tiene reacciones que ella no puede controlar, siendo una mujer le resulta más sencillo el ocultarlas

link a la sesion y los pacientes

Hace unos días recibí un relato, que me apresuro a poner aquí, por su indudable interés, ya que es la visión, para entendernos “del otro lado de la camilla”. Me lo ha enviado alguien que dice ser “Dakini” es decir, masajista tántrica

Aprovecho la ocasion para dar las gracias a tan amable contribuyente, ya animaros, si os apetece, a escribir alguno.

Por mi parte estoy tambien preparando una serie sobre el orgasmo, tanto masculino como femenino… sabeis que solo analizandome a mi mismo (que es el modelo que tengo mas a mano , he identificado al menos tres, si no cuatro tipos de orgasmos distintos? pero eso sera tarea de fin de semana.

Y, obviamente, si quereis compartir alguna experiencia con los otros lectores, sysop32@yahoo.es

La Visión de la Masajista Tántrica (Madrid)

Hace más de 5 años que me dedico a esta profesión de masajista Tántrica y me encanta lo que hago. Sé que este espacio es muy especial y es más que un simple masaje. Varios factores contribuyen a que así lo sea: la decoración, los aromas, la higiene, la música seleccionada, pero sobre todo la actitud profesional.

El tantra se basa en el placer como fuerza sanadora, utiliza la energía sexual para abrir los canales energéticos del cuerpo y la mente. Sobre todo ayuda a desconectar los pensamientos, darle un descanso a la mente y conectar más con la energía del corazón.

Si, ya sé que para muchos solo es un modelo de masaje erótico recien aparecido, de pronto además de los masajes birmanos, griegos, franceses y alemanes, aparecen los masajes tantricos. Pero no.

Evidentemente, no es sencillo distinguir el grano de la paja

Os puedo asegurar que el mío es más que eso.

Manejar el Masaje Tantra es todo un arte… algunos dicen que poseo “Manos Sabias”…. Sé perfectamente cómo, dónde y cuándo tocar. Y, eso se aprende con la práctica…con una escucha atenta y total presencia ante el ser que literalmente se “desnuda” ante ti.

A decir verdad la sesión comienza ya con al llamada telefónica, una voz proporciona mucha información al que sepa interpretarla, estado animico, afinidad, y, por que no decirlo, posición social.

Por lo general, el paciente desconocido se encuentra ansioso. Ha llegado a un lugar que no conoce, se va a desnudar, manos desconocidas van a actuar sobre su cuerpo, no sabe qué esperar. Sin ser una situación estressante, si que no representa la mejor manera de empezar. No puedo decirle: desnudate completamente, te duchas, te tumbas en la camilla y cuando estes listo, me llamas. Simplemente, esto no se puede hacer.

Lo primero es lograr que el paciente se sienta cómodo, cuidado, acompañado. En una charla previa le explico qué puede esperar del masaje, en qué debe fijarse. Por mi parte por el modo de expresarse, su voz, su mirada, su estructura corporal, sus expresiones faciales capto la personalidad y me aporta elementos para trabajar en la sesión.

Para ponerles en confianza, y al mismo tiempo para conocer mejor sus costumbres, incluso su sexualidad, tenemos un rato de charla. Lo primero es determinar si aceptan su cuerpo, si pueden hablar de él, de sus reacciones, o hay que usar subterfugios, perífrasis…

Si se sienten cómodos con sus relaciones sexuales, si hablan de ellas sin preocupacion ni complejos, ya sé que asisten a unas sesiones de masaje tantra porque desean mejorar como personas a través del sexo. Son pacientes que tienen las ideas claras, y pueden explicar qué es lo que desean exactamente: aprender la capacidad de retrasar el orgasmo, o incluso llegar al orgasmo “seco”, que permite al hombre ser multiorgásmico. Con ellos es fácil hablar, explicar, no hay zonas prohibidas, ni en la conversacion, ni en general (y hablaremos de ello) en su cuerpo.

Ahora bien, también hay pacientes que no asumen su sexualidad, que no pueden hablar de cómo es su orgasmo, de cómo hacen el amor con su pareja, si se masturban o no (yo creo que todos los hombres lo hacen). Parece que hayan llegado al masaje tantra por curiosidad, y ver en qué consiste eso de que se habla tanto.

El tantra es una técnica completa, no es simplemente una manera especial de hacer un masaje, no es lo mismo que el birmano o el cubano, y sin conocerlos, sin saber lo que buscan, sin prepararlos, es imposible el realizar un trabajo

Las Dakinis, las verdaderas masajistas Tantricas somos seres especiales en el sentido que poseemos una energía sexual elevada y, es por ello que podemos despertar la energía en otros.

Somos dadoras de vida “Life Givers”.

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