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This is the last chapter of a story I received by mail, indicate the condition of the phone of the Dakini, who is in the first post

This last chapter has been a bit long, but there comes a time when you can not, do not stop.

I liked the whole story, and the situation, but above all a statement released today: "We have taught a sex explosion and implosion." It is said very quickly, but there is much to think about it.

Next step, hands off, both lying on the mat, I do connect with your saliva your mouth feeling moist ... .. playing with his tongue .... (there is connection with the Yoni palate) ... Tantra is the cult of the senses ... but it is a language so forgotten ... We have been taught a sex explosion and implosion ... not everything is metisaca, and were about two of them. And I must break the pattern explosive was to reduce the sexual tension epidermal, skin, erection in men, lubrication and strengthening the mujar deep sexual energy, which the kidneys, lower abdomen, the ovaries and testes.

And the heart, especially the heart.

Feel your body, everything, face, mouth, stomach, genitals ... there are men who tell me that after having experienced a true Tantric session, and do not seek sex with any pin put out ...

I see that it has opened, and plays the male .. lovingly taught him tricks with your fingers: the hoop, scissors, the fro, tingling, vibration ... this session is very dedicated to her because it required it ... but each session is a world ... and there are also steps ... here we have connected with basics ... breath, saliva, petting ... had an excellent exercise that is very powerful "expansion-contraction" each part of the room ... are naked ... and ask them on the floor ... Self-paced work with the slogan paying attention to your genitals ... especially I ask her to exaggerate the movement as a vulva-pelvis ...

He commented that he was amazed to see those moves in it ... never saw her so that she said gave him much pleasure and that he was not a whore ... We joined in a dance music three ethnic hindu ... ... undulating movements very erotic ... I play them both ... and I see that are much more responsive .. she has a smile on his lips ... and I see the lingam encouraged to play it ... cause ... with her buttocks, and she is about too.

I put softer music, natural sounds of a rainy evening on a lake, and tell them that we are about to end, that is only to feel the pulse of another in the genitals. We tend the three on the mat, she in the center, one on each side, and ask her to take with one hand the lingam it, put the fingertip in the back, in the channel formed between the corpora cavernosa, and where you notice the contractions of orgasm, and, still, try to feel the heart of it.

And he himself, who put two fingers on the clitoris and wait. Neither should any movement, listen to music and focus all feeling in the fingertips. I for one support the fingers at the entrance to her vagina, she pushes a bit to fit more, and if there feel the pulse of it. Strong, powerful, she says she feels the pulse of the, well, move a little finger, I tap the point G, I notice your body to draw, entice, hug my fingers, your pelvis forward to the meeting, it should work.

I ask her to put astride it, without fear that she will control the penetration, and stay still, just feeling my hand, until I asked to slowly lower the lingam that I guide you. And so we do, she gets on top, sitting, legs apart, eyes open, staring, and I though I keep it, I'm touching her, opening the way, feeling the muscles of the entrance to her vagina completely loose, your body open, waiting for the man.

I ask him to come down now, slowly, to regulate the penetration, speed, depth. And while I stand the lingam of it, I feel in your body the moment of doubt when it appears that it will close, the small effort, but immediately, the deepest movements of going and see the body of her embrace to meet the . I could leave, let alone take my hand hurts, but I'm more.

I half rose to go with the desire to go there, my hand between the two bodies, taking at once the strength of the wet and feeling the desire for it.

"Do not leave me he says, she says nothing, looks at me and smiles." I stand for.

She leans back, I stand the lingam to lean on or at point G, she has an orgasm, a moment that leaves my hand flooded, amrita will? But it can not last long the session, she is satisfied, it can not dry and boring, so I put my fingers in V lingam embracing him as he moves to the pressure. The enduring, like a wild boar. It can not, must not continue, if she gets tired and it hurts, rather than heal, the session will have spoiled him even more. So he must finish.

I spend my other hand to the point of a million dollars, a point between the testicles and anus, support, and there I notice that your body is stressed, that orgasm is imminent. Comes, how will not come!, My fingers feel the contractions of your lower abdomen, I feel the blows of his lingam in the yoni of it, as your body tense as a bow. It seems never ending, still moving, ever more slowly, until she leans over and hugs him. A rain of amrita and semen wet my hands when she bends. I love it.

I give my hand to smell, full of those two, she smells it, not reject it, is but, also spend their hands and are offering to him, that lame.

I get up, I threw a blanket over it, and go.

After a while, and showered, I hear the groans again, her and him. I leave you alone, I do not need.

I think that was a good job ... this is it opposed to the instructions of his mother ... and she is, and not her mother, who is in bed. The next day she called me thanking me for the experience ... you want to continue ...

comes from an email sent to me with the story and provided, if published, the data indicate are in the first post.

It is the story of a tantric massage, and couples therapy, link to previous post.

The lingam of it without seeing it, just imagining the situation was already showing its desire to erect ... it's funny, but even dakinis, when the man in this situation, we feel its energy, we took advantage of it. However, if a woman is, but rather we vampirizes ours. But that's another story that may explain another day.

She also felt the sexual energy ... you do connect with scenes of pleasure as a child ... those that she liked a lot, but they had nothing to do with sex. But that little by little, was oriented here and now. The receiving and giving pleasure, which gradually took in his hands the lingam of her partner, like a fragile porcelain, but I wanted to take care and give pleasure ... the slogan was just playing, do not induce orgasm ... I expressed can not, do not know, who has not ever done (is it possible that a woman with thirty well done, has not ever played with her partner's penis?), which gives shame ...

I ask you to remove the bandage and show you, if she accepts, as running a lingam. I ask him to breathe ... and I look at you ... do not seek ... look for the opening explosion of energy, .... people here are amazed, because I do so when a couple, there's only pleasure without erection (sometimes, this man was particularly complicated, and could not have him either counting breaths until bored). That's the beauty of Tantra ... there is a goal ... the goal is the journey ... in the end she tries to imitate ... and takes it as a game .. but not like ... as you lose the fear .... I teach expand the movement, not just with their hands, also with his body, like a dance ... or to accompany dance, to activate your Kundalini and shed at the end of thinking "large, painful, dirty" .... begins to laugh with pleasure ... I'm liking what you do ... you know the trick, and, above all, losing the false modesty that had imprisoned in their networks ... I come now also in action .... We two, she wants to touch me, but it is not that. But in something if you want help, I've had children, I have made episiotomy, I have sewn course, I'm normal, and I ask you as I have, first put on a glove, and then comparing the size of your vagina with mine. You will see that more or less, are equal, and may enter a finger, two or three without any problem. First he says no, but curious, and I said okay, give it a try.

It's not something you normally do, a tantra session is not shared sex session, but in this case it suited him and me, finally, did not care. I will say more, there is some pleasure to teach someone who, despite his age, a virgin in some respects. But there is a very delicate border that can not be transferred, not just during the session, but also in remembering that the session left. That is, something that may seem "normal" in the session can be recalled later as a trio. And it's not that. But in this case we had three very well connected, the session was progressing in a pleasant way to its end and I think I must explain that no, they were both normal.

Place the glove, and I explore (no other word) like a gynecologist.
I tell you not that, to be more gentle, more loving, more sweet. Is surprised that is wet, he asks directly: "are you excited?" I said yes, they are natural responses of the body to the sexual energy, and that do not involve the desire to have an orgasm, just something that as it comes leaves. As if the eye itches more tears. He asks how we should cherish, and I say that just as he had explained to him before, to seek my point G, but only to find that along the entire vagina with two fingers, but once done, stop, or I want or I take pleasure in a session, and I need it. And that makes it, now softly, softly, lost in the damp recesses, in the meandering smell of my body without any shame.

Meanwhile, in the glory .... ... Panting ... full of energy all the time saying "ayyyy, for God" guauuu, My God I hear this phrase a lot in meetings ... and is that tantra is to hit the door to God ... ( E we will say the atheists) but very special experience in ecstasy ...

continue in the last chapter

As you recall, this is a post I received in the form of first-person email describing a therapy session tantric couples. Not if it's true what is said, but I liked the story. The only condition that regard, is to indicate the name and phone number of the author, who is in and he first post . The photos (if any) I have given them, and have no relation to post author

We were all three on the mat, each of us has such a doll fist, and asked them to verbalize what they feel when you breathe in the air sex, but has not begun yet, and from here, that dolls talk about what they want.

We started it, it's easy. It has a lot to say, explaining that his wrist is always willing, that you want from who knew that before making love, before getting into bed feeling a vibration in your body similar to the one feeling at that same time, a sense of anticipation in his head rather than their sex. My questions (well, at my wrist) whether this provision is immediately before, or time before, I said to begin in the morning and all day does not remove the sex of the head.

But at the same time is concerned, because he knows that the moment you find it more pleasant to him, the penetration, it hurts. She feels her body and closed, as if as if his body was not welcome. Then, once inside the two are comfortable until he makes any sudden movement, pushes the kidneys, which again I feel a blockage in her body. And from this moment, it's over, the party is over, notice that she wants to end, puts his hand on his dick (so he says), and while it is moving inside her, she makes the earwig to be run faster. Not true, says her wrist, I do this because I know you like!. Yes, and you like to finish and leave you alone to go to the bathroom and shower.

oops, bad vibes, I control the situation if I do not want to end up dolls scattered on the floor, and they get angry. So, in line with what was being said, explaining her what he likes at the moment, thinking I was going to talk about it. But no, she did not want to talk, and says, thinking every sentence, which is moved by the touch of skin on your back, hard and tender at the same time, the nerve of her ass when pushed, although you do some damage but, above all, his gentleness, his care when he is in it, as if about to break, but, of course, which almost made her mourn (and I say crying) is first and above all, pleasure him, his stress on the moment of orgasm, as his face changes after orgasm face, a face hard, aggressive before, a helpless baby face later.

And that this is enough, that does not need more.

I speak of the pleasure of it. I ask him, what she feels in her body. No eye contact, look at the doll, which says:

it hurts when he enters, which is only now, but if he moves too abruptly, and therefore is afraid. That is like when you forget the fear because you look in the face of it, and try to forget your body.

Who has ever tried to put his hands on his ass, but who dares not, that is stroking the back (where he had just showered) that you would like to go down to the buttocks, but not sure if you must, if he would like or would find that those things do whores. And in any case, she may remain some remnants of his mother, who always said that touching the saw, baby, do not touch there, baby, wash your hands after pee, baby, the girls sleep with arms above the covers.

... My God ... uuffffffffffffffffffffffff is fantastic that this has left ...

We did become aware that it was she and not her mother who was making love, that dirt is essentially cultural, but the body of the beloved, as the son, not dirty. That sex in itself is not dirty.

(Continued)

As you recall, this is a post I received by email. The data of the person who sent it are at the end of the first post on the subject

In the previous post , had managed to calm her anxiety and the erection of it.

Began the ritual.

We started with the rolling, standing, as being numb. They are techniques to trick the mind and power enter unusual states without any drugs ...

It is very pleasant ... I notice that he gives and gives to the experience ... and in return she has difficulty in surrendering, to move sensually, moving his body and pelvis. Give a little feeling, thinking, "Why do I have to pass me this?"

And it's strange, because it is she who called me, it is she who has concluded the session. She would have to be involved, and try to drag the other, but it is not. We could be in a couple if manipulative, and it is he who from behind the scenes to manage the situation, but do not think so.

I explain the use of aphrodisiac oils that I bring a friend of his trips to India and ask them to cherish, standing in the position where they had left after the dance, repeating the ritual of the shower, ie each unciendose first himself, then to the couple. Not required to be the same areas may change. And indeed, if he turns to stroke his lingam, and she her breasts when she who must put oil on it to proceed directly to the back, but now it falls below the waist, buttocks and washes well his thighs. Something we move forward. Now my turn to act.

It is a very delicate point. I clarify that I always adapt to the limit of the couple ... I'm not invasive ... not my intention ... which, without speaking, withdrawing my hand carefully just get the message.

With men there is not much problem, I love to be touch them, and they like to touch your partner. We are much more complicated, first because we're not accustomed to that we touch a woman, and second, because it conflicts need to touch your partner sexually.

I ask her to rely, that is not yet where or when I touch your partner ... you probably get excited, but relying on the experience. But if it bothers you, we can stop the session at any time.

We sat on the mat then three ... (them naked, I took a slightly transparent black robe that reveals, or rather guess, my forms).
Here I ask that you express some quality she admires in her, and then backwards. That love, sexual tension off the situation, because it enters a sort of RPG, which is reinforced with a set of "puppets" like a puppet tantric wireless. That frees them from responsibility for what they are saying. Sometimes they even ask you to give them a name, for more customized to the wrist, but better than not, at least with an unknown partner. In any case, it is remarkable as a toy breaks through the inhibitions, and to express deep feelings or pain. No longer are they, and their bodies are not speaking directly, are puppets in a theater.

I ask her to explain the doll what you feel when you are going to make love when sex is almost a safety.

I have different puppets, more or less sweet, warm, fluffy, hard too, from those that are essentially a talking head with the hand movements, which are a vagina or a penis .. and depends on each situation.

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As you recall, this is a post I received by email. I must insist, that no one be fooled, the pictures I have selected the purposes of illustration, not the author of the post. Your data is, at her request, at the end of the first post .

In the previous post , had left the couple in the shower, that if, back to back.

Well as I said, they were back to back, took about half a minute there when you enter me.

His lingam was fully erect. Despite being back to back. All this wait, not only in the shower, if not the preparation, thinking about how they were going to wear, how to elapse the session, what they would do once there they were excited ... the situation, the shower, I was them watching ... and ... give them guidelines.

I turn off the lamp Himalayan salt bath and left alone with 10 scented candles and music ... to daydream ...

Gently with a sponge bath, while I ask you to verbalize where you want to be soaped, is a way to go breaking his mental chip and connect with their senses. The words distract from the sensual touch of the sponge, which the body is feeling, but the intellect does not rationalize. The same could have asked him to recite the shopping list, trying to break the relationship between sex and rational mind, lest he slip through brashly shame and prejudice.

I also ask to shower each other, taking both the shower and touching only the hand that share a shower, not bodies, and each point the shower, sharing. First in the area they most want to own (he points directly his penis, her breasts) and then in the other's body. He, too, her breasts, she however, prevents the lingam, makes him turn around and sends it to the back, since it has wide shoulders to the waist. She avoids erogenous zones it more clearly. We already have a clue.

Because the Tantric ritual is a ritual in the sense of a recipe is much more than that, it is also healing, guidance, must adapt to (or) patients.

Then ask them to dry each other .... are 10 small disposable towels (everything is disposable) and cleaning are easy to manipulate and massage as well are doing and step unwittingly can not leave to dry areas.

She is now more relaxed note, more open to experience. When the penis is drying up, looks at me as if to say "see, as I told you so." The truth is that he is excited, will have to download it if you really want her to accept it, not see it as aggression. He could have taken precautions, I'll tell next time.

We tantric ritual, where the pads are ready ... ... scented candles ... area we sat on the floor and explained the 3 ... it is not an orgy, but we will work with the body's sexual energy is energy ... Life ... it begins to get nervous and cough .... I ask you to do special exercises with breathing domino to relax and dissipate the mind and thoughts ...

I am an expert on this, my teachers tantric say I have highly developed the 6th and 7th chakra, so in my meetings people relax a lot, they do fly, sometimes it's my very presence that generates this state, without I nothing special.

Start the session, beginning with the circular breathing going into a trance to go carefully chosen music. The fits perfectly, his erection goes away, and yet, she does a little, but a lot will ... works hard, I take his hand to give you security and confidence. And there, at that time, his hand tells me that your body opens as Lotus ... I get the exercise .... is the most important part of the session ... is like putting the starter the car a winter day ...

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At the root of my posts about massage, I received an email with a story I'd like to share with you. I do not know if the story is real and it matters little in the background, it is credible, and that gives it interest.

Apparently, male masseurs not only treat, but also couples. This is the story:

Well, how rare she requested the session and not, as often happens always, and was a session partner. I asked the age, she had 32 years, 39 ... It was difficult to explain on the phone a little what was the situation that led them to contact me. Finally, in a whisper, told me that she has difficulty in penetration, it hurts, you do not have orgasms ... have the idea that the penis is very large.

We were, under the cabinet, do a flower arrangement (men less interested in these things), and when they realized immediately that he had come reluctantly, but he loved her.

First of all you have to make patients feel comfortable, talk about everything and nothing, have lived together for five years, everything is going fine except the bed. If you make love, but as it hurts - not always but often - look derivatives. And when you really want to make love, are flooded with lubricant. She complains that he is not fit, that has it enoooooooooorme, very wide, and now that the child will wish that was not shared with bottle of Durex.

He says nothing.

I was intrigued to see him. The truth is that the cabinet passed all kinds of people, but few with a penis enooooooooorme.

Start the Tantric ritual. Now all the masseurs are adjectives as "tantric". It has created a false Tantra, which consists of two or three techniques, older than walking on foot, and trying - unsuccessfully - to delay orgasm. Tantra is much more than that, the sexual act is a fraction, Tantra is a holistic approach to sex, including movements, smells, music, environment, and, of certain techniques.

So before the shower to prepare it, especially the hands ... taught him some exercises to open your fingers that I teach a Hindu dancer in Puna, and ask him to get into the shower, that soon I will bring you the Bride.

I explain to her that I will attend the ritual bath, I'll give the instructions, and if possible should do what they say. There is a lot of verbal in the bathroom, the sound of water facilitates the talking.

I explain that first go it alone, and should be back to back, without looking, then come in I will address them.

Enter it, after half a minute to get used to the room, to the situation, to touch another's back without looking, I come. I can not help watching him spar enoooorme and erect. And I can say that nothing great in size. Maybe something thicker than average, but not one penis is the same every day. We were going to have to change the script, I came prepared for a physical incompatibility, "it is" not was. Except she was abnormally narrow (and I asked him if he had had children - no - because Spain has the dubious record of episiotomy at delivery, episiotomy and closed over the account, or badly scarred vaginas generates too narrow.

That's the first thing to find out.

(Continued)

The only condition for publishing the post is that he should put his name, Deborah, phone 647 298 354 and say you're in Barcelona. The photos are taken from the Internet, because your email did not contain any

Here comes the moment in which the patient can not resist, your body is asking for the rest of orgasm.

If the customer, for whatever reason (shame, religion, faith) has asked me not to orgasm with me, the session ends softly, pulling my hands erogenous zones maternally approaching him, that will be relaxing.

However, in most cases, it's time to finish. My hands slide, taking the lingam right and left points of the Year. I ask you is he who moves the pelvis, I leave my hand still in his lingam, while playing his anus hot spots. My hand is still, is the lingam that is moving under her, her movements are not mine, which release their energy Kundalini.

I look at his face, his involuntary reflexes, some movement of the eyes, fingers of your feet for knowing when I need more support in his anal area, press a little more of his lingam, to feel the spasms of his orgasm, creamy spurts of pleasure, the special smell of that moment.

It is a time rewarding for both, giving pleasure is pleasant. Keep your lingam into my hands, so if starting the movement, because the patient no longer moves. Prolong their orgasm, continuous-casting increasingly lower vibrations, I feel the warmth of his cum sliding down my hands, my body. At one point it was he who stopped my hand. Keep in touch, as his erection goes away. There are some very intimate, very personal.

El orgasmo conseguido con este ritual es completamente diferente del habitual, tanto en pareja como el que se obtiene por masturbación. Al haber tenido mayor preparación, y al haber actuado sobre puntos concretos, es más profundo, moviliza más el cuerpo. Un orgasmo conseguido por masturbación es epidérmico, y afecta apenas al pene, el orgasmo conseguido movilizando la energía sexual se provoca en los tejidos internos, en la zona de la próstata y afecta a todo el cuerpo.

Algún día colgaré en este blog las expresiones que se manifiestan en ese momento de tanta sexualidad: “Toque el cielo “, “Qué viaje cósmico” “Eres una Diosa Tántrica”.

Doy gracias a la vida ya un querido amigo que me acompaña en todo este proceso. Y poder decir abiertamente y sin vergüenza o pudor “Soy Dakini Tántrica”.

Gracias a mis pacientes que me descubro a mí misma a través de tocar sus cuerpos.

The patient has already turned around, and notice a special energy in the environment. It's hard to explain, but you will have all the respect, just before intercourse, when there is something in the room that drives us into the body of the other, towards acceptance of a very intimate act.

Although there are no penetration or fellatio and all work done with the hands and sometimes my chest but may touch the patient's body, if it is comfortable with that contact, and not interpreted as pursuit of sex, sexual energy is present.

It's not just erect lingam, and in itself a great transmitter, which transmits the sexual energy is, above all, the previous work.

Se trata ahora de mantener al paciente cerca del orgasmo, sin alcanzarlo, enseñandole a dominar su cuerpo, acercandolo al momento en que veo que no se va a poder detener, en que se dispara el reflejo orgásmico, y cambiando de ritmo, o de movimiento, o haciendole alguna pregunta que obligue a responder (todos sabemos que el pensar es incompatible con la erección .

Y esta es la parte placentera del masaje, no solo para el paciente, sino para la Dakini. Mientras una mano tiene su lingam, acariciandolo, la otra mano explora su cuerpo, pasando alternativamente del primer chakra (el pubis), a los testiculos, al perineo, a toda la zona anal, y son los movimientos reflejos de su cuerpo los que me indican en que fase está. Le pido que respire, que abra su cuerpo, que mueva su pubis, que se abra, que se abra a mis manos, que se abra al mundo.

Hay que tener mucho atención para evitar la eyaculación… es un diálogo no verbal total entre los dos, les invito a que prueben algo diferente… que intenten prolongar ese estado de placer… que no busquen la explosión y que dejen a mis dedos, y manos actuar.

Me mimetizo con el masaje y el cuerpo y no tengo miedo o pudor en tocar. Para mí es una Danza de las energías, entre la de él y la mía… donde se avivan los fuegos, los líquidos, los sonidos internos. Intento (y en general logro) llevarlo a otros espacios más exquisitos de su ser. Todo su cuerpo esta vibrando, moviéndose como una gata en celo, sintiendo…estando sólo para él, sin preocuparse de tener que dar placer a la otra persona. Egoismo en estado puro.

Y el sentirse observados excita mucho.

Pasamos a la tercera parte, que es el tatami… porque el final de la sesión suele ser en un tatami, para que el paciente pueda tambien tener un acceso comodo a su cuerpo.

Les pido que abran sus pelvis, que sientan todo su cuerpo sin juzgar… que se toquen… es la parte más importante.

Me acerco en diferentes posiciones, para que sigan abriendo su energía sexual. Mis dedos juegan con el lingam… tengo una habilidad increíble que me enseño una bailarina Hindú… jugar con los dedos, las yemas, las palmas, con mucha ternura y delicadeza transmitiendo calor y amor.

Algunos me preguntan si yo me excito también. A decir verdad, depende del paciente. Soy humana y no soy robot, pero, desde luego, excitada o no, no puedo ni quiero compartir mi cuerpo con el paciente. Doy enseñanzas, doy sabiduria, doy placer, pero no comparto el mío con los (y las) pacientes.

Si no fuese así la enseñanza quedaría desvirtuada. Si dijese que nunca me ha sucedido mentiría. Con algunas personas la energía ha sido tan fuerte que lo necesitabamos tanto él como yo. Pero desde luego tal vez me haya sucedido media docena de veces en toda mi vida.

Seguimos en el tatami, y en algunos casos les motivo a que jadeen con ganas, que sientan toda esa energía condensada en su Hara o bajo vientre.

Y, si la sesion es buena, si el paciente está cómodo, yo misma noto como se abre, como su pelvis viene al encuentro de mis manos, como su cuerpo se relaja, abriendose como una flor, pidiendo en cierto modo mis caricias en esta zona, habitualmente prohibida.

Y sigue la sesión, mis manos con aceites olorosos, mis pechos tocando el cuerpo del paciente, mis manos recorriendo su cuerpo, una de ellas siempre manteniendo el contacto. Noto las pulsaciones de su cuerpo, en su lingam, en toda la zona anal, su respiracion.

Transmito mucha seguridad y calidez en el masaje y en el trato. Será por ello que tengo una clientela muy fiel. Es un masaje especial, la persona se está abriendo a ti… no solamente físicamente, sino en otros aspectos también.

continuará, con el final de la sesión

So with unknown patients is often necessary to "navigate view." Porque hay pacientes que no saben en que consiste el tantra, y se sorprenden que, en un momento determinado toque puntos erógenos que provoquen su erección. Y se avergüenzan de ello! Como si ello debiese constituir un problema para una Dakini Tantrica!

Mientras masajeo su cuerpo les infundo conocimientos, les enseño a diferenciar orgasmo de eyaculación… si son eyaculadores precoces les explico como masturbarse con más consciencia, enseñandoles los puntos que condicionan el “reflejo eyaculador” para que, precisamente, los eviten.

A menudo la eyaculación precoz tiene sus antecedentes en unas costumbres autoeróticas incorrectas, cuando la persona se masturba no por necesidad sexual, sino como acto reflejo, para escaparse por unos momentos del estress de la vida diaria; esa práctica deviene, con el tiempo, una actuacion compulsiva que busca una satisfaccion inmediata.

El tantra permite corregir estos “malos hábitos” (no hay criterio moral en esta palabra, son malos en cuanto afectan negativamente a las relaciones de pareja), actuando sobre su raiz inmediata. La raiz lejana, las causas profundas de esta necesidad pertenecen al ámbito de sicólogos, y el tantra no puede ni quiere sustituirse a ellos.

Mientras sigo con mis manos.. mis movimientos envolventes. El paciente sigue boca abajo en la camilla, y ya empiezo a notar un cosquilleo en todo su cuerpo que se transmite al mio en forma de energia sexual. Les invito entonces a que muevan su pelvis, que abran su cuerpo, que abran su energía, les indico los puntos erógenos alrededor del ano y en el perineo…más de las dos terceras partes no los conocen, o bien son incapaces de aceptarlos como puntos de excitación por tener miedo a ser confundidos con homosexuales.

A veces me apartan la mano, o comentan: no, aqui no. Evidentemente, les escucho, no se trata de forzar situaciones incómodas. Lo que si puedo decir es que para asistir a una sesión tántrica hay que ir con la mente abierta, porque si la mente no está abierta es imposible abrir el cuerpo.

Si estos pacientes regresan a otra sesión (a veces se quedan como asustados, y supongo que en otra ocasión iran a gabinetes más “convencionales”, donde les harán una paja birmana en un plis plas) ya aceptan mi masaje, y saben que no existen zonas tabués.

Sigo con mi masaje… lubricando con aceite oriental todo su sexo, perineo y testículos.

Debo conocer el estado receptivo del paciente, que, recordemoslo, está tumbado con el vientre en la camilla, para saber si está preparado para darse la vuelta. Es un momento dificil para el hombre, que debe aparecer desnudo ante la masajista. Y es un momento dificil que depende de la persona, porque hay quien puede sentirse avergonzado de su ereccion, pero hay tambien quien puede estar avergonzado de su flacidez. Lo mejor es que sea el propio paciente quien solicite darse la vuelta.

Para ello deslizo una mano juguetona entre su cuerpo y la camilla, palpando su lingam. Si lo siento duro solamente preciso reforzar este estado acariciando sus testiculos y el borde de su ano. Noto al paciente incomodo, su pelvis que viene a encontrar mi mano, dejando mas espacio para su lingam y acercando su centro a mis caricias. Le pregunto:

- te quieres dar la vuelta?

y ya se la da él mismo, sin preocuparse de su desnudez erguida.

Si por el contrario lo he encontrado flaccido, trato de animarlo, con caricias mas orientadas, con presiones en su primer chacra (el pubis) para ver si logro la ereccion. Muchas veces las caricias combinadas en el ano, con aceite, y en el primer chacra, rozando el lingam tambien logran los resultados esperados.

Si no lo logro, no queda mas remedio que pedirle que se de la vuelta.

capitulo siguiente: la apertura del cuerpo

El masaje Tántrico es muy sensual y sensitivo y en él intervienen los 5 sentidos.

Lo primero es abrir los canales al paciente. Y qué son los canales? los canales son puntos energéticos conocidos y utilizados en las culturas orientales. Dicho a la occidental, lo primero es que el paciente se sienta tranquilo y relajado. Con estress, con prisas, con reloj no se pueden lograr resultados.

Para ello le pido que desnude y que se duche, por higiene primero, pero sobre todo, para lograr un primer estado de limpieza, para dejar fuera del recinto tantrico toda la contaminación, humos y prisas de la vida diaria. La ropa, la vida de fuera deben quedar en el exterior del gabinete de masaje.

Se trata que una primera preparación, tanto física como espiritual para lo que va a venir a continuación.

Una vez está el paciente desnudo en la camilla, con música preparada especialmente para el tipo de sesión que he seleccionado, empieza la sesión propiamente dicha, que es una fusión entre música, palabra, movimientos, y, cómo no, olores.

Olor de incienso, olor de aceites esenciales, olor tambien de las velas que suelen alumbrar tenuemente la escena.

Les acaricio empezando por la espalda, mientras les explico las diferentes sensaciones que van a notar. No es solo un masaje, no es solo caricia de mis manos, es todo mi cuerpo que en algunos momentos se acerca al suyo, para favorecer el intercambio de energia, para que ellos me traspasen como se sienten y yo pueda, eventualmente, corregir la sesión.

Porque, aunque tengo una clientela fiel, tambien hay pacientes que llegan a mi porque “alguien” (no saben quien) les ha hablado de mi, o porque me han “encontrado en Internet”. Hay que descubrirlo todo en estos pacientes, porque aunque hay muchos que, aunque hayan llegado a mi por casualidad, se conocen, conocen su cuerpo y lo que buscan. Tambien existen otros que dicen en la entrevista previa que no tienen erecciones sin Cialis, o que ellos controlan su orgasmo. En función de esto ajusto la sesión, los perfumes, la musica, los movimientos, y de pronto me encuentro con un lingam erguido antes siquiera de haber acercado mis manos, o con los signos inequivocos de un eyaculador precoz.

A veces eso es un problema, a veces no.

Aunque el paciente esté de espaldas a mi, mis manos deben recorrer todo su cuerpo. Los glúteos, el canal que los separa, dejando pasar mis dedos lubricados por su ano. Ahí ya tengo una primera señal, si el paciente cierra las piernas, sé que será un caso dificil, si, por el contrario, instintivamente se abre como una flor, dejando fluir su energía, sé que la sesión será provechosa para ambos.

Llego entonces al perineo, ya los testiculos, cogiendolos con ambas manos, notando su textura y su dureza, que me dice mucho del estado fisico del paciente. Si no tienen tono muscular, si están caídos como fruta madura, si tienen una textura “gomosa” la sesión va a ser complicada, el paciente está flojo (no es que lo sea, es que yo no he sabido o no he podido levantar su energia sexual, y será preciso un mayor esfuerzo).

Claro, este tipo de contactos, manos bien lubricadas rozando, palpando la zona perineal (y perianal), suelen provocar una ereccion en el paciente. Y entonces, igual que antes con las caricias en la zona anal, hay pacientes que temen moverse para ponerse comodos, no olvidemos que estan con el lingam sobre la camilla, y ahora la erección les está presionando, y que se pueden sentir avergonzados de la situación.

Porque un masaje tantrico puede o no acabar en orgasmo, y hay pacientes que no quieren que acabe asi, es su decisión y yo, aunque no la comparta, la respeto. Estos pacientes, a veces, no siempre, son los que se sienten avergonzados de tener una erección en una camilla de masaje.

Y en cambio hay pacientes a quienes no importa mover un poco su pelvis, para colocar el lingam en posicion menos molesta, momento que aprovecho para abrirles un poco las piernas, y alcanzar entonces con mayor facilidad tanto sus testiculos, como su perineo y su zona anal esa zona tan desconocida para tantos hombres, y tan sensible, la piel oscura y fruncida del exterior del ano… ese contacto es un punto dificil para muchos hombres, del cual hablaré mañana.

Y cuando llego a este punto del ritual, cuando he palpado los testiculos, la zona perineal, la zona anal, ya sé qué orientación debo darle al masaje, si el paciente está preparado para aprender, para compartir su energia conmigo, para participar en un rito ancestral, si en cambio ha venido a probar el masaje tantrico porque la chica que hacia el birmano en otro gabinete estaba enferma, o si, finalmente, está muy lejos de estar preparado para recibir las enseñanzas de una dakini tantrica

link al capitulo de como conocer a los pacientes