3. The Dakini. The Session and Patients
Monday, June 22nd, 2009
Tantric massage is very sensual and sensitive and involves the 5 senses.
The first is to open channels to the patient. And what are channels? channels are energy points known and used in Eastern cultures. West told the first thing is that the patient feel calm and relaxed. With stress, hurry, no clock can achieve results.
For this we ask you to undress and take a shower for hygiene first, but especially for a first state of cleanliness, to keep out of the enclosure tantric all pollution, smoke and bustle of everyday life. The clothes, life outside should be outside the massage room.
This is a first preparation, both physically and spiritually for what will come next.
Once the patient is naked on the couch with music prepared especially for the type of session you have selected, starts the session itself, which is a fusion of music, speech, movement, and, of course, smells.
Smell of incense, essential oils smell, smell of the candles too often dimly illuminate the scene.
I caress starting back, as I explain the different feelings that are going to notice. Not just a massage, not just caress of my hands, my body is that at times comes close to yours, to promote the exchange of energy, so that they me through how you feel and I can eventually correct session.
Because, although I have a loyal clientele, there are also patients who come to me because "someone" (do not know who) has spoken to me, or because I have "found online." You have to discover everything in these patients, because although there are many who, though they come to me by chance, know, know your body and what they want. There are also others who say in the previous interview that they have no erections Cialis, or that they control their orgasm. On this basis adjust the session, perfumes, music, movement, and suddenly I see a tall lingam before you even have approached my hands, or with unequivocal signs of premature ejaculation.
Sometimes that's a problem, sometimes not.
Although the patient is back to me, my hands must travel throughout your body. The buttocks, the channel that separates them, letting my fingers lubricated anus. That and I have a first signal if the patient closes her legs, I know it will be a difficult case, if, on the contrary, instinctively as a flower opens, leaving your energy flow, I know that the session will be fruitful for both.
I come then to the perineum, and testicles, catching with both hands, feeling its texture and hardness, which tells me a lot of the physical state of the patient. If you have no muscle tone, if dropped like ripe fruit, if they have a texture "gummy" the session will be complicated, the patient is loose (not that it is, is that I have not heard or have not been able to raise their sexual energy, and will require a greater effort).
Of course, this type of contact, rubbing well lubricated hands, feeling the perineal area (and perianal), often cause an erection in the patient. And then, as before the stroke on the anal area, there are patients who are afraid to move to get comfortable, do not forget that the lingam are on the table, and now they are pressing erection, and may feel ashamed of the situation.
Because a tantric massage may or may not end in orgasm, and there are patients who do not want to end well, it is your decision and I, but do not share the respect. These patients, sometimes, not always, are the ones who are embarrassed to have an erection on a massage table.
And yet there are patients who do not care to move your pelvis slightly to place the lingam in a position less annoying, I take time to clear their legs a bit, and then more easily reach both his testicles, and your perineum and your area anal that area so unknown to so many men, and so sensitive, dark and wrinkled skin outside the anus ... that contact is a difficult point for many men, which I'll talk tomorrow.
And when I get to this point in the ritual, when I feel the testicles, the perineum, anal area, I know what advice I give the massage, if the patient is ready to learn, to share their energy with me, to participate in a ancestral rite, if change has come to try tantric massage because the girl that by the Burmese in another cabinet was sick, or if, finally, is far from being ready to receive the teachings of a tantric dakini
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