Posts Tagged 'ritual'

5. Post received. The couple and the Dakini

Friday, September 11th, 2009

As you recall, this is a post I received by email. As this stretching a bit, posting and at some point I add the photos. At the request of the person who wrote it (who, incidentally, has sent me an email saying thank those calls and those that you have been in contact with her), said his phone in the first post

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We were now to stop playing with dolls (and would not contribute anything more), and play with dolls. Dirty is it a doll? no, really, let us now explore the other's body as if it were a new doll. The game is to unite our three hands, and I will guide you have to play. You will notice that there are no zones in areas no taboos, but if anyone bothers you, change the game. And you have to connect to the body, with pleasure, you ought to concentrate, visualize, feel the path of the hands in each other's bodies. If my hands touch your lips, I imagine that the lips are touched mine, I think what I'm feeling at this moment, in the exercise of a split personality that allows freedom from the real senses. It's hard to imagine what the other feels, and more if the other is of the opposite sex, as I woman, a man feels when he stroked.

And if something like it, have it noted, should groan, groans, sighs, pleasure phrases fed to another. That sex is not to open your legs and you get wet, or if you are a man, get rid of your semen load within seconds of pleasure.

Tantra teaches you to connect with pleasure ... and not only pleasure in bed ... but the joy in life itself ... and enjoy what little or much we have ..

I give as an example, I have a lover .... not much because we travel a lot ... but when we see an eternity I enjoy that moment ... I give and I'm thinking that if ... or if it were otherwise .... The Master Osho talks a lot to enjoy the present moment ... ... If you eat an apple. COME then, feel the apple ...

I explain that we will touch some exercises to loosen the cellular memory that is blocking breathing ... the key here is the key ... are my hands and breathing ... I ask them to catch the loving hands, and are present without judging ... emerges and what emerges is not cutting it ... .. if there is weeping, weeping as they butt .. is the best medicine.

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I wear latex gloves (you have to put a barrier, not only hygienic, but also emotional, I'm the therapist, not the third of the trio), and tell them to start walking her body. I do not want to excite him, and I feel that is what you'd like, but it is she who must be persuaded, and an erect lingam is the best medicine in this situation. To distract them (especially to him, which is always about his lingam, less when speaking), I show that the towels are disposable ... use cotton for its soft texture, to open their energy Tantric ...

We walk three her body, his hand on the body over mine, guiding, and above it all, and protecting, approved. I note that he fondles her breasts, down, goes to the thighs, breasts back, neck ... but what about sex? I notice that she is open to the experience, the barrier of my gloves gives you confidence, you want to develop good sign ... other courses close the legs .. or go to the bathroom ... (evasion) ...

The music helps a lot in the process .... Are a very special, very serious tones ... I ask you both to feel his saliva, his jaw, all closely connected with the sexual side .... As the touch surface, I notice that your hips moving toward us, like asking for more. But he does not want, avoids ... why is it so she is not delivered? Or is he who is afraid of rejection from her?. Complicated. I think I should analyze, understand better what happens. Blindfold them both. I do not want to be distracted, much less to confuse the roles and the situation. I tell them I'm going to play me. To the touch it very carefully so as not to excite him (still can not make it, he's about to explode), I ask you to breathe deeply, to make OMMMM at each expiration, and the count (that's definitely a man, is incapable of having and maintaining an erection ;) , And devote myself to it. yoni_001

The play directly across the vulvar area, without ado, it is not excited, though I notice that your vagina is delivered .... There vislumba fluids ... and a smile on your face ... I invite you to feel ... the continued holding her hand .. I ask that moves like a cat in heat ... lying, but feeling your spine ... opening their legs ... it was beautiful to see her ... I introduced a finger into her vagina. It seemed normal sized, well lubricated, there should be no problem. I pushed a second finger, and moved her hips to meet my hand. I asked her to move, undulating, that if he wanted to touch him, timidly approached two fingers to their sex, and immediately retired to take them to the nose. Of course, there was a problem there.

I replaced my hand on his hand, asked him to do the same I had done, first one finger, then a second, which runs through the interior, which had set at that space, that entry was a little cramped, but if he entered two fingers, also enter your lingam, which was wider in, I explained how to find the G spot, how to recognize it once found. She told him not to leave to move, their movements were sensual and seductive, which was true ...

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4. Post received. The couple and the Dakini

Thursday, September 10th, 2009

As you recall, this is a post that received email describing as a first-person therapy session tantric couples. Not if it's true what is said, but I liked the story. The only condition that regard, is to indicate the name and phone number of the author, who is in and he first post . The photos (if any) I have given them, and have no connection with the author of the post

We were all three on the mat, each of us has such a doll fist, and asked them to verbalize what they feel when you breathe in the air sex, but has not begun yet, and from here, that the dolls talk about what they want.

We started it, it's easy. It has many things to say, explains that his wrist is always willing, that you want from who knew that before making love, before going to bed feeling a vibration in your body similar to the one feeling at the same time, a sense of anticipation in his head rather than their sex. My questions (well, at my wrist) whether this provision is immediately before, or time before, I said to start in the morning and all day does not remove the sex of the head.
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But at the same time is concerned, because he knows that the moment you find it more pleasant to him, the penetration, it hurts. The body feels it as closed, as if as if his body were not welcome. Then, once inside the two are comfortable until he makes some sudden movement, pushes the kidneys, which again I feel a blockage in her body. And from this moment, it's over, the party is over, note that she wants to end, puts his hand on his dick (so he says), and while it is moving inside her, she does the earwig to be run faster. Not true, says her wrist, I do this because I know you like!. Yes, and you like to finish and leave you alone to go to the bathroom and shower.

oops, bad feeling, I control the situation if you do not want to end up dolls scattered across the floor, and they get angry. So, in line with what they were talking, explaining her what he likes at the moment, thinking I was going to talk about it. But no, she did not want to talk, and says, thinking every sentence, which is moved by the touch of skin on your back, hard and tender at the same time, the nerve of her ass when pushed, even if you do some damage but, above all, his kindness, his care when he is in it, as if about to break, but, of course, which almost made her mourn (and I say crying) is first and foremost, the pleasure him, his stress on the moment of orgasm, as her face changes after orgasm face, a face hard, aggressive before, to a helpless baby face later.

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And that this is enough, that does not need more.

Does not tell me the pleasure of it. I ask him, what she feels in her body. No eye contact, look at the wrist, which reads:

it hurts when he penetrates, which is only now, but if he moves too abruptly, and therefore is afraid. That is like when you forget the fear because you look in the face of it, and try to forget your body.
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Who has ever tried to put his hands on his ass, but who dares not, that is stroking the back (where he had just showered) that you would like to go down to the buttocks, but not sure whether, whether He would like or find that these things do whores. And in any case, she may remain some remnants of his mother, who always said that the saw touching, baby, do not touch there, baby, wash your hands after pee, baby, the girls sleep arms above the plains.

... My God ... uuffffffffffffffffffffffff is fantastic that this has left ...

I did become aware that it was she and not her mother who was making love, that dirt is essentially cultural, but the body of the beloved, as the son, not dirty. That sex in itself is not dirty.

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3. Post received. The couple and the Dakini

Tuesday, September 8th, 2009

As you recall, this is a post I received by email. Data from the person who sent it are at the end of the first post on the subject

In the previous post , had managed to calm her anxiety and the erection of it.

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Began the ritual.

We started with the rolling, standing, as being dormant. There are techniques to trick the mind and to enter into unusual states without any drugs ...

It is very pleasant ... I notice that he gives and gives to the experience ... and in return she has difficulty in surrendering, to move sensually, moving his body and pelvis. Give a little feeling, thinking, "Why do I have to pass me this?"

And it's strange, because it is she who called me, is she who has concluded the session. She would have to be involved, and try to drag the other, but it is not. We could be in a couple if manipulative, and it is he who from the shadows to manage the situation, but do not think so.

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I explain the use of aphrodisiacs oils brings me a friend of his trips to India and ask them to cherish, standing in the position where they had left in the dance, repeating the ritual of the shower, ie each unciendose first himself, then to the couple. Not required to be the same areas may change. And indeed, if he turns to stroke his lingam, and she her breasts when she who must put oil on it to proceed directly to the back, but now it drops below the waist, buttocks and washes well her thighs. Something we move forward. Now my turn to act.

It is a very delicate point. I always clarify that I adapt to the limit of the couple ... I'm not invasive ... not my intention ... that, without speaking, withdrawing my hand carefully just get the message.

With men there is not much problem, I love to touch them, and they like to touch your partner. We are much more complicated, first because we're not accustomed to that we touch a woman, and second, because it conflicts need to touch your partner sexually.

I ask her to trust, who is not aware of when or where I touch your partner ... that probably was excited, but to trust the experience. But if it bothers you, we can stop the session at any time.
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We sat on the mat then three ... (them naked, I took a slightly transparent black robe that reveals, or rather guess, my forms).
Here I ask that you express some quality she admired in her, and then reversed. That love, removes sexual tension to the situation, because it goes into a kind of RPG, which is reinforced with a set of "puppets" as a puppet Tantric wireless. That frees them from responsibility for what they are saying. Sometimes they even ask them to give them a name, for more customized to the wrist, but better than not, at least with an unknown partner. In any case, it is remarkable as a toy breaks through inhibitions, and to express feelings or deep pain. No longer are they, and their bodies are not speaking directly are puppets in a theater.

I ask her the doll explain what you feel when you are going to make love when sex is almost a safety.

I have different puppets, more or less sweet, warm, fluffy, hard as well, for which they are essentially a talking head with the hand movements, which are a vagina or a penis .. and depends on each situation.

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2. Post received. The couple and the Tantric Dakini

Monday, September 7th, 2009

As you recall, this is a post I received by email. I must insist that no one be deceived, that the photos I have selected the purposes of illustration, not the author of the post. Your data is, at her request, at the end of the first post .

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In the previous post , had left the couple in the shower, that if, back to back.

Well as I said, they were back to back, carrying about half a minute there when you enter me.

His lingam was fully erect. Despite being back to back. All this waiting, not only in the shower, if not the preparation, thinking how they were going to wear, how to elapse the session, what they would do once there they had excited ... the situation, the shower, I was them watching ... and ... give them guidelines.

I turn off the lamp Himalayan salt bath and left only with 10 scented candles and music ... to daydream ...
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Gently with a sponge bath, while I ask you where you want to be soapy verbalize is a way to go breaking their mental chip and connect with their senses. The words distract from the sensual touch of the sponge, the body is feeling, but the intellect does not rationalize. The same could have asked him to recite the list of purchase, trying to break the relationship between sex and rational mind, so it does not brashly sneaking shame and prejudice.

I also ask to shower each other, catching both the shower and just touching the hand that shares the shower, not bodies, and each point the shower, sharing. First in the area they most want to own (he points directly his penis, her breasts) and then in the body of another. He, too, her breasts, she however, prevents the lingam, makes him turn around and sends it to the back, since it has wide shoulders to the waist. She avoids erogenous zones it more clearly. We already have a clue.

Because the tantric ritual is not a ritual, in the sense of a recipe is much more than that, it is also healing, guidance, must adapt to (or) patients.

Then ask them to dry each other .... are 10 small and disposable towels (all disposable) cleaning and are easy to handle and are doing well and massage unwittingly step can not leave to dry areas.

She is now more relaxed note, more open to experience. When you are drying the penis, looks at me as saying: "You see, as I told you so." The truth is that he is excited, have to download it if you really want her to accept it, not see it as aggression. He could have taken precautions, I will tell the next time.

We tantric ritual, where the cushions are ready ... ... scented candles ... area we sat on the floor and explained the 3 ... which is not an orgy, but we will work with the body's sexual energy is energy ... Life ... it begins to get nervous and coughing .... I ask you to do special exercises with breathing domino to relax and dissipate the mind and thoughts ...
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I am an expert in this, my tantric teachers say I have highly developed the 6 th and 7 th chakra, so in my meetings people relax a lot, they do fly, sometimes it's my very presence that generates this state, without me nothing special.

Start the session, beginning with the circular breathing to get the music going into trance very well selected. The fits perfectly, his erection goes away, and yet, she does a little bit, but there are a lot of will ... takes pains, I take his hand to give you security and confidence. And there, at that time, his hand tells me that your body is opened as Lotus ... I get the exercise .... is the most important part of the session ... is like putting the starter the car a winter day ...

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1. Post received: The couple

Sunday, September 6th, 2009

At the root of my posts about massage, I received an email with a story I'd like to share with you. I do not know if the story is real and it matters little in the background, it is credible, and that gives interest.

Apparently, the masseuses not only deal with men, but also partners. This is the story:

ritual sala Well, how rare it called for the session and not, as often happens always, and was a session partner. I asked the age, she had 32 years, 39 ... It was difficult to explain on the phone a little what was the situation that led them to contact me. Finally, in a whisper, told me that she has difficulty in penetration, it hurts, you do not have orgasms ... is the idea that the penis is very large.

We were, under the cabinet, I make a floral arrangement (men less interested in these things), and when they realized immediately that he had come reluctantly, but he loved her.

First of all you have to make patients feel comfortable, we talked about everything and nothing, have lived together for five years, everything is going well except the bed. If you make love, but because it hurts - not always but often - looking derivatives. And when you really want to make love, are flooded with lubricant. She complains that he is not fit, that has it enoooooooooorme, very wide, and now that the child will wish that was not shared with bottle of Durex.

He says nothing.

I was intrigued to see him. The truth is that the cabinet passed all kinds of people, but few with a penis enooooooooorme.

Baño ritual Start the Tantric ritual. Now all the masseurs are adjectives as "tantric". Tantra has created a false, that is two or three techniques, older than walking on foot, and trying - unsuccessfully - to delay orgasm. Tantra is much more than that, sex is a fraction, Tantra is a holistic approach to sex, including movements, smells, music, environment, and, of certain techniques.

So before the shower to prepare it, especially the hands ... I teach exercises to open your fingers that I teach a Hindu dancer in Puna, and ask him to get into the shower, that soon I will bring you the Bride.

I explain to her that I will attend the ritual bath, I'll give the instructions, and if possible should do what they say. There is a lot of verbal expression in the bathroom, the sound of water facilitates the talking.

I explain that first go it alone, and should be back to back, without looking, then I will come and will address them.

Enter it, after half a minute to get used to the room, to the situation, to touch another's back without looking, I come. I can not help watching him enoooorme cock and erect. And I can say that nothing great in size. Maybe something thicker than average, but not one penis is the same every day. We were going to have to change the script, I came prepared for a physical incompatibility, "it is", and it was not. Except she was abnormally narrow (and already had asked whether he had children - no - because Spain holds the dubious record of episiotomy at delivery, and episiotomy over the account closed or badly scarred vaginas generates too narrow.

That's the first thing to find.

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The only condition for publishing the post is that he should put his name, Deborah, phone 647 298 354 and say you are in Barcelona. The photos are taken from the Internet, because your email did not contain any

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