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5. Post received. The couple and the Dakini

Friday, September 11th, 2009

As you recall, this is a post I received by email. As this stretching a bit, and posting at some point I added photos. At the request of the person who wrote it (who incidentally, has sent me an email saying thank those calls and those that you have made ​​contact with her), said his phone in the first post

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We were now to stop playing with dolls (and would not contribute anything more), and play with dolls. Dirty is it a doll? no, really, let us now explore the other's body as if it were a new doll. The game is to combine our three hands, and I will guide what to play. You will notice that there are no prohibited areas, there are no taboos areas, but if anyone bothers you, change the game. And you have to connect to the body, with pleasure, you ought to concentrate, visualize and feel the path of the hands in each other's bodies. If my hands touch your lips, I imagine that the lips are touched mine, I think what I'm feeling at this moment, in the exercise of a split personality which frees the real sense. It's hard to imagine what the other feels, and more if the other is of the opposite sex, as I woman, a man feels when he stroked.

And if something like it, you have to point it out, you have to moan, moans, sighs, sentences of pleasure feeds the other. That sex is not to open your legs and you get wet, or if you're a man, get rid of your semen load within seconds of pleasure.

Tantra teaches you to connect with pleasure ... and not only pleasure in bed ... but the joy in life itself ... and enjoy the little or much we have ..

I give as an example of a lover who I have .... not much because we travel a lot ... but when we see an eternity I enjoy that moment ... I give and I'm thinking that if ... or if it otherwise .... Master Osho talks a lot to enjoy the present moment ... ... If you eat an apple. COME therefore, feel the apple ...

I explain that we will touch some exercises to soften that memory cell that is blocking ... breathing is the key ... key here are my hands and breathing ... I ask them to catch the loving hands, and are present without judging ... emerges and what emerges is not cutting it ... .. if there is weeping, weeping as they butt .. is the best medicine.

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I wear latex gloves (you have to put a barrier, not only hygienic, but also emotional, I'm the therapist, not the third of the trio), and tell them to start walking her body. Do not want to excite him, and I feel that is what you'd like, but it is she who must be persuaded, and erect lingam is the best medicine in this situation. To distract them (especially him, that is always about his lingam, less when speaking), I show that the towels are disposable ... use cotton for smooth texture, to open their energy Tantric ...

We travel the three her body, his hand on the body over mine, guiding, and it above all as protecting, passing. I note that he fondles her breasts, down, goes to the thighs, back to the breasts, neck ... but what about sex? I notice that she is open to the experience, the barrier of my gloves gives you confidence, a good sign when you want to evolve ... other courses close your legs .. or go to the bathroom ... (evasion) ...

The music helps a lot in the process .... Are a very special, very serious in tone ... I ask you both to feel his saliva, his jaw, all closely connected with the sexual part .... As the touch surface, I notice that your hips move toward us, like asking for more. But he does not want, avoids ... why is it so it is not delivered? Or is he who is afraid of the rejection of it?. Complicated. I think I analyze, understand better what happens. Blindfolded both. I do not want to be distracted, much less to confuse roles and the situation. I tell them I'm going to play. To the touch it with great care not to excite him (even so I fail, he is about to explode), I ask you to breathe deeply, to make OMMMM each expiration, and the count (that's definitely a man, is incapable of having and maintaining an erection ;) And I do it. yoni_001

The play directly across the vulvar area, without ado, is not excited, though I notice that your vagina is delivered .... There vislumba fluids ... and a smile on your face ... I invite you to feel ... the continued holding her hand .. I ask him to move like a cat in heat ... in bed, but feeling his column ... opening their legs ... it was beautiful to see her ... I introduced a finger into her vagina. It seemed normal sized, well lubricated, there should be no problem. I pushed a second finger, and her hips moved to meet my hand. I asked her to move, billowing, that if he wanted to touch him, timidly approached two fingers to their sex, and immediately retired to take them to the nose. Of course, there was a problem there.

I replaced my hand on his hand, asked him to do the same I had done, first one finger, then a second, which runs through the interior, which had to be set at that space, the entrance was a bit cramped, but if he entered two fingers, also enter the lingam, which was wider in, I explained how to find the G spot, how to recognize it once found. She told him not to leave to move, their movements were sensual and seductive, which was true ...

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4. Post received. The couple and the Dakini

Thursday, September 10th, 2009

As you recall, this is a post I received in the form of first-person email describing a session of tantric couples therapy. Not if it's true what is said, but I liked the story. The only condition that regard, indicate the name and phone number of the author, who is in and he first post . The photos (if any) I have given them, and have no relation to post author

We were three on the mat, each of us has a doll of those fist, and asked them to verbalize what they feel when you breathe in the air sex, but has not begun yet, and from here, that dolls talk about what they want.

We started it, it's easy. It has a lot to say, explaining that his wrist is always willing, that you want from who knew that before making love, before getting into bed feeling a vibration in your body similar to the one feeling at that same time, a sense of anticipation in his head rather than their sex. My questions (well, at my wrist) whether this provision is immediately before, or long before, I said to begin in the morning and all day does not remove the sex of the head.
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But at the same time is concerned, knowing that the time more pleasant it is for him, the penetration, it hurts. She feels her body and closed, as if, as if his body was not welcome. Then, once inside the two are comfortable until he makes any sudden movement, pushes the kidneys, which again I feel a blockage in her body. And from this moment, it's over, the party is over, notice that she wants to end, puts his hand on his dick (so he says), and while it is moving inside her, she makes the earwig to be run faster. Not true, says her wrist, I do this because I know you like!. Yes, and you like to finish and leave you alone to go to the bathroom and shower.

oops, bad vibes, I control the situation if I do not want to end up dolls scattered on the floor, and they get angry. So, in line with what was being said, explaining her what he likes now, thinking I was going to talk about it. But no, she did not want to talk, and says, thinking every sentence, which is moved by the touch of skin on your back, hard and tender at the same time, the nerve of her ass when pushed, although you do some damage but, above all, his gentleness, care when it, as if about to break, but, of course, which almost makes mourn (and I say crying) is first and above all, pleasure him, his stress on the moment of orgasm, as his face changes after orgasm face, a face hard, aggressive before, a helpless baby face later.

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And that this is enough, that does not need more.

I speak of the pleasure of it. I ask him, what she feels in her body. No eye contact, look at the doll, which says:

it hurts when he enters, which is only now, but if he moves too abruptly, and therefore is afraid. That is like when you forget the fear because you look at his face and tries to forget his body.
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Who has ever tried to put his hands on his ass, but who dares not, that is stroking the back (where he had just taken a shower) you would like to go down to the buttocks, but not sure if you must, if he would like or would find that these things are whores. And in any case, it is possible that she had left some remains of his mother, who always said that touching the saw, baby, do not touch there, baby, wash your hands after pee, baby, the girls sleep arms above the covers.

... My God ... uuffffffffffffffffffffffff is fantastic that this has left ...

We did become aware that it was she and not her mother who was making love, which is essentially cultural dirt, but the body of the beloved, as the son, not dirty. That sex in itself is not dirty.

(Continued)

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